Fellow moms, any tips on getting 8mo old baby to adjust with the daycare? He was miserable when we pick him up yesterday (e.g. cried and teachers said he didn't take bottle easily).

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I will say just give it time. It's just separation anxiety. The first week my 10month old started daycare, she was miserable (crying during drop off and pick up). But the following week, the crying stopped and she sarted to enjoy the place. I would also add that having the same person receive her in the morning was also helpful. She didn't have to deal with a new face every drop off.

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Time and consistent routine

Thank you All. Hope he'll adapt soon.

Hang in there! Before long, she will be super happy to be there.

Time... babies adjust it’s just heartbreaking to feel helpless

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