Females: Anybody feel like their ADHD gets worse on their periods?

So she would go in and start flirting talking about meta data

I am getting offer from Deloitte, wanted to know does company allows remote working outside the base country? I have seen few blogs that company does international remote working,is that really happening in Deloitte?

My desi 🐠 in the US. Any of you get arranged marriages? Did it work out for you? Were there any regrets?

Hi folks,

Can I switch my role from a Java Developer to a Salesforce dev in the company itself?
Need views on this.

I feel like a terrible person for this but I think I may need to rehome my dogs. My life is getting so busy with work and I just don’t think I can give them the life they deserve living in the city. What do I do?

(26F) I’m in my first big tech job and I’m trying to network & put myself out there. But I find that the spaces I encounter are all white. My question is am I obligated to network with white people?? Will it make or break my career if I stay within my community ?? What advice do y’all have ?

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Thinking about moving home for a year to save some money. Currently spend $1100/month on rent in a townhouse with some friends but feel so broke but don’t want to move back to the suburbs. Any advice :/ only 9 months into my first job, 24 years old

Hello everyone, I wanted to understand I have done BBA and after that MBA in banking as minor and have been working as Fraud investigations Advisor I want to advance in my career so which certification is good CAMS or CFE, the Investigations I am currently doing are system automated we just have to follow the SOP and take action on the account, can anyone guide me how to proceed further in my career path and which certification can help me to advance in my career. YOE 7 years

My agency is looking for mid-level-ish copywriters and AD’s. Brand work experience is a must. Send me your book and i’ll give you the deets and refer you if you’re a good fit.

Been holding since $15,but dang, ouchie cciv 😂

I had my last video session with my amazing therapist yesterday and I’m feeling super emotional about it. I’d been seeing her for a year and a half, but her office is considered “short term” treatment. I’ve had a therapy session with a new long term and it’s bringing up all the anxiety and emotions having to re-explain everything all over again. Has anyone dealt with that and how did you do it?

I feel like I’m drowning most days. I have 4 kids under 6 with the last two being twins less than 6mos old. I keep reeling myself that it will get better but every waking moment of my life is (cont)

How hard is it to recruit front-end engineers in LA as opposed to the other big American cities (e.g. NY, SF, Chi, etc.)?

Anyone have insight into working at Optum?

If anyones gone through a few different extended release medications (adderall XR, vyvanse, Concetta, etc.), can you share how they differed from each other? I’ve been on 20mg adderall XR for about 6 months and just curious if it’s worth exploring other options.

Does anyone use "white noise" headphones? Do you have any brand recommendations?

I have long covid (the fog is following me) and I have been off my meds for a few months (since I got sick). The fatigue + fog + rampant adhd + vertigo + tinnitus = Omg somebody help me. I am trying to find specialist doctors I can(not) afford and read insurance while I am dizzy and wildly inattentive/forgetful and overall off balance. 😭🤣 this is a joke right?? I feel under water literally and figuratively. Someone please laugh w/ me. 😬😂🤷🏼‍♀️

So i have adhd and really bad anxiety. Seeing a physchiatrist that will likely put me on anti anxiety meds.

Has anyone with adhd here gone on anti anxiety meds without treating the adhd, and if so how did the meds affect concentration and memory?

Newly diagnosed & medicated and new to consulting.
I’m great with clients but getting bad evaluations because I’m slow to produce work and don’t take time to communicate status.
I’m trying really hard but I keep getting stuck in perfection loops and scared to share things before they’re perfect.

Did you struggle with this & find a way to improve? I’m terrified I’m going to get counseled out, but I love this job so much.

What is your melatonin dosage?

Does anybody else feel the need to work on projects with tangible applications/results? When I work on financial/IT work, I feel like the numbers are all floating in the air and don't really make a difference. On supply chain projects, I don't feel so much like I'm treading water because things are physically being moved and progress is easily measurable.

Need to brag- for the first time in my life, my performance review says "very organized".

First year medicated, I knew it was making a difference for me but seeing the evidence on paper is still crazy.

Embarrassing ADHD moments? I'll start

1. Drove home 2 hours tonight only to realize 2 hours later that I forgot my laptop bag

2. Went out of town and left meat out the freezer. Called an uber driver to use my padlock to get into my place and put it back

3. Driven off with the gas pump in my car. Twice

4. Walked in, paid for gas, walked out, got in my car and drove off

5. Forgot gyro meat in my air fryer for 2 weeks.

My Vyvanse meds make me pretty dehydrated. No matter how much water I drink, my mouth is still dry plus it makes me end up needing to use the bathroom often. Any tips for dealing with both of these issues?

I was recently diagnosed with ADHD and depression. I have couple questions, it would be really helpful if you can help me here as I have no ecosystem/network who can help me.
1. Doc said ADHD medication would help with the later. Has anyone else been diagnosed with similar thing and did only the ADHD med help? I feel great somedays and somedYs feels like I want to die (For context: I am on concerta which is slow release)
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anyone else taking strattera having sexual side effects? (ED,etc) just started taking it and wondering if that goes away after a bit or if it’s ongoing because no… just no.

Has anyone tried focus factor sold at Costco

Does time blocking tasks for the day work for anyone? I get caught up, unable to finish tasks within the time block and feel miserable.

I’ve had enough. I may or may not have ADHD but I damn think so, as well as people I’ve talked to about it. I know I am smart and can accomplish certain things/tasks, but I literally just can’t get my mind to it sometimes. It was bad in college and only got worse since I started working. How do I go about at least getting tested or what’s the the process? Thank you so much in advance.

do you guys just...not know what you want?
so far my career has gone pretty well just spontaneously applying for things that have sounded interesting.

Now, my current company is very supportive and wants to help my career plan - problem is I have no plan because I don't know what I want to do, and I can't choose what I want to do because I don't know what I like. my stupid brain cannot form an opinion based on anything other than what I did that exact day.

Has anyone ever had weird side effects after getting their meds filled from a different manufacturer than what you’re used to?

I have not been diagnosed with ADHD. I definitely fit some of the characteristics that go unnoticed in females. The good news is if i do have ADHD, it makes me quite good at my job as I’m very flexible and can provide positive energy to my patients. Anyway, my boss has told me I have ADHD multiple times. It seems rude when she says it, and she follows it up with “I say that because I love you” which i feel is so unprofessional all around. Anyone have guidance on how to handle this?

I started taking Adderal, 2.5 g which is not really a lot. It didn’t really help with my focus, instead I felt restless and somehow nervous and really thirsty. And it made me clench my teeth. I do grind my teeth during nighttime but never experienced this in the daytime. Does it take time to get used to it?

I am always embarrassingly late to the office/client site in the mornings.

It seems to be a combo of only going in 1-2 times a week so I can’t get a routine and general time blindness. I do take my meds first thing so I’m able to at least complete getting ready tasks one by one…

Any and all advice welcome!