First date outfit ideas? Any thoughts on mom jeans, loafers + some top? Debating on what style top I should wear. TIA!

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I think your outfit sounds like office casual Friday. Maybe change your loafer for cute boots or something nicer. If I’m really interested in the person, I wear a V neck blouse or a color that complements my undertones.

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Avoiding wearing booties / heels because he’s on the shorter side 😆

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Would swap loafers for heels or booties. I usually wear a sleeveless solid blouse with fun earrings and or necklace.

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Mom jeans flatten your butt. Keep your ass-ets.

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Silk blouse with one more button undone than you would do at work? Fun pattern and big earrings?

Check out “the Motherchic” on Facebook or instagram. Not sure if you’re a mom or not, but that’s really irrelevant here. She posts some great date night looks that might give you some ideas. Personally I think she wears too many ripped jeans, but that’s a simple swap.

My go-to is low heeled pointy booties, flattering black jeans, cute slimming top & leather jacket or cute casual oversized blazer

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