First time in 6 years being in a serious relationship and the holiday season is magical. All those years of being single were worth it to find the right person. A good relationship is not overrated, and when it’s right, it just ‘fits.’ Know your worth and never settle! 💕

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Congrats SPM, happy for you! How did you meet your SO? When / how did you know they were the right one?

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