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First year here and I'm very attracted to my second year. I thought she might be feeling the same way too and when the client we were on together got a new team I was hoping we could talk about the possibility of it since I would no longer be directly under her. But now we both got pulled on to a new client and she is scheduled to be the lead senior and I'll be the second year. What should I do? 😔

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Just keep saying “directly under you” over and over in conversation, then it will subliminally get into her mind and you’re good. Foolproof plan.


"Yes Charles, you wanted me?"


I’m a third year senior and a female. I’ve had several male associates over the past couple years who seemed to be into me. I was never interested in them, I was just nice, polite, professional, friendly and complimented their work and explained stuff to them (as a senior is supposed to do.) Does she seem interested in you or is she just good at her job as a senior? Just something to consider before you hit on your superior.


Valid point. I think so but I'm not sure how to confirm without asking her.


Don’t shit where you eat


Shoot your shot. You’re a year apart.


At my office they would shift clients so you don't work together

Shoot your shot...on her back


OP any updates?!


If she’s thinking of going industry in two years, go underground and tell no one

Ask her out lol

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