Fish with SOs: Is your partner older or younger than you and by how much? Include your gender.

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Male, wife is a few months older. Total cougar status

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Male. Wife is 3 years older than me, and way better looking.

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Male, girlfriend is younger by 2 years

Female, older than me by 5 years

*boyfriend is older than me by 5 years

Female, boyfriend is six years older than me

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