Folks, I matched with a guy who's an year younger, 6ft+ looks damn hot(according to me). I guess am average & even before I meet I feel it'll be a turndown. How do you deal with such thoughts ?

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Turn such thoughts off. You are good as you are. He is just another human, people come together to have conversations, enjoy each other’s company, share humor, exchange ideas, develop chemistry and find compatibility. There is awful lot that comes together not just physical characteristics. So believe in yourself and go for it confidently! You got this!

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He's probably not as smart as you. Try a conversation.

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Sheit if you 2 matched then the dude obviously saw something that caught his eye. Just make sure to put out on the 1st date and keep him coming back.

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Then again, the dude probably was just speed-swiping and then review the matches. I’ve done both.

Just because you think he’s hot, doesn’t mean everyone does. Just be yourself and confident and it’ll work If it’s meant to be

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