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For the last yr I didn’t prioritize sex and rejected my husband A LOT. It impacted our relationship. New Years resolution is to work on my marriage and prioritize sex, husband seems tapped out now :/

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You both should get counseling

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He won’t go to counseling....I’ve tried many times

That’s tough OP. You might need to keep trying and get rejected a few times before he caves, since you rejected him so much just keep trying and be lighthearted about it. Good luck!

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