For the past month our house has been in a constant state of quarantine (kids under five) and now stomach flu has hit. My hours suck and I’m exhausted. I truly enjoy my job but life keeps getting in the way! I’ll be lucky if I hit 120 hours this month…can I take a vacation?

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I have no advice but I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m even surprised you’ve managed to hit anywhere close to 120 hours with what’s happening in your house. You’re doing a good job, mama, just keep going.

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Please don’t feel guilty for actually shifting your priorities when they need to be shifted. It’s only January. There is plenty of year left to make up for a lower billing month. Sending healthy vibes your way 💜

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Are you in biglaw? It’s fine. I’ve had 20 hour months and 300 hour months. You’ll have plenty of time to make it up during the year. Take a break.

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Yes, take that vacation!! You need it

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We’re all in this with you! Not that it makes it better, but lots of people understand what you’re going through.

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