For the past year or so I’ve started to realize I second guess everything I do. Personal life and professional life. I feel like I’ve lost a part of myself because I’m scared every time I do something someone’s going to tell me that it was wrong or there was a better way to do this. This has lead to me over analyze situation and fear what people will say to me or behind my back. I don’t want to feel this way so looking for some suggestions on how to change this path.

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Just do it or say it. Holding it back is not gonna help ya! You build confidence by actively engaging yourself

I’d seriously recommend finding a therapist to talk to. It could help you a lot!

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