For those LGBTQ people who are unable to spend Christmas with family due to rejection, please know you are worthy of unconditional love and support.

You have a large social media family who loves and supports you.

Merry Xmas to everyone. Love you all ❤️🎄

Still searching for my creative partner but feel like everyone has found theirs. How do you find love?

How to constructively talk about the long term future with SO? We (both 26) have been together 6 years with the last 3 as LDR. We are supposed to be moving in together over the summer, but given she is moving across state lines I don’t think this should be a light decision. It’s reaching the point that if we don’t move in I don’t think we should continue dating and I also don’t want her to move in without talking in detail about core relationship topics (marriage, finances, etc).

My SO is scared to ask his parents for his money back. The money they were holding on to for him. Now that he’s a grown man I think he’s old enough to hold on to his own money. He like needs a valid excuse to ask for it back and I’m like why do you need an excuse when it’s your money and he’s like well I don’t want to start a fight…. And the last time he spoke to his parents about it apparently there’s been some mix ups and so they need to sort thru what’s his etc. (CONT’d in comments)

New to Phoenix! 30 year old consultant. Ideas on how to make friends? 😁

Hi all, I’m thinking of moving out of my parents home to another state for my peace of mind bc of some marital issues going on between them. Is this a wrong idea? Im also worried for my mom who has health issues and that would be the only reason I continue to stay.

I feel like I am drowning. My mom’s first year anniversary is coming up, things are not good at home with my dad and sister, I am about to breakup with my SO, and deeply unsatisfied with my job.

I'm about to go through a divorce for the first time. Should I go through a divorce lawyer ($450 consultation)? Or a referral from the local bar association ($35)? I don't want to get screwed.

I was offered a job today in agency that I really like. I can’t take it because it implies moving to another city and loosing the stability that my wife’s income brings to our household.

Anyone in the suburbs find it harder to make friends compared to the city? I don’t want to move back but I don’t know what else to do..

Got broken up with by my bf of 1 yr. He said he felt like something was missing from our relationship but couldn’t (or wouldn’t) say what. I know I should just focus on moving on but I can’t help but fixate on this. We had similar goals, values, lifestyles and were pretty compatible. We got along great and the physical chemistry was still there. So what could be missing????

Been actively applying to jobs with no bites. Feeling pretty disheartened because really want to relocate closer to family. Going to keep trudging!

Reached out to an ex after not being in contact for 4 years. Said “Hi, I hope all is well.” No response. Intention was not to get back together (we’re both married now), more to mend fences since we were good friends once upon a time. Was reaching out a mistake?

I want to do an MBA in the next 2 years. I’m currently up for Senior consultant promotion but I don’t think I can make good money in consulting till I become Partner. My boyfriend isn’t supportive of this decision. He believes it will alter our plans (marriage, children etc). He also thinks immigration will be a big hassle since I’ve already used my 3 years of OPT. What should I do?

Took a trip half way around the world to realize how emotionally unavailable. Others deal with this constructively?

Meeting a guy through arranged marriage setup (I am south asian), the guy thinks that girls don't need to work after marriage as husband takes care of expenses , I want to say no to this person for proceeding . basically I feel this person lacks common sense that 2 incomes is better than one in a household. what is the best way to reject this potential groom candidate ?I feel a girl need not sacrifice her career after getting married , as marriage is not life it is part of life.

Hi ,

Is elder brother / sibling allowed for temporary accommodation.

Is anyone managed to accomodate them as well if it's not allowed.


Kindly suggest.

My whole sleep schedule is fucked up thanks to my husband the teacher, who can sleep in and “give out assignments” for like an hour

Hello everyone,
I’m supporting a mom who had a 2 month supply of breast milk in her freezer but the freezer stopped working at some point on Thursday after 5pm. I believe she shouldn’t re-freeze the milk at this point. She said the milk is cool but not frozen anymore. Do you have any suggestions please? Can she re-freeze it?

Do you think it matters if you and your SO’s friends are similar? My boyfriend and my backgrounds are very different and while we are fine with each other’s friends, I would never mesh our friend groups. A part of me always get envious of couples who are able to expand their friend groups and do fun things together

Watch noob here and I know this is the Luxury Watch bowl, but thoughts on Citizen Eco Drive?

What is the hiring market looking like these days? I am seriously burnt out and ready to exit MBB consulting, but feel this economic downturn may not be the best time to make big career moves. Thoughts?

Anyone else notice that a bunch of non-market firms pulled their NY job postings as of November 1? I was hoping to see how much below market they paid!

New here and wanted to get a feel on if posting/networking through this bowl has actually landed you your next role?? Can I get a show of 'LIKES' :)

Can someone give me a referral to TikTok? Pleaseeee

Hi Fishes!! Are there any long term relocation opportunities abroad available in Nagarro? If yes, then after how much time will I be eligible to apply for same after joining?

Good side hustle for full time artist.

Hi,

Currently working in HCL serving Notice Period. Got offer in wipro of 18.8LPA. If I'm asking 27LPA CTC during Exit interview or in negotiation, whether HCL provide the pay or not? Someone please share your opinion on this one?

Is anyone else having the worst time switching jobs? I’ve been applying for a year and haven’t gotten any job offers even though I get interviews. If anyone knows of a headhunter I could reach out to though I’d be so appreciative! I’m so frustrated….

I am getting ready to send my 2 year old toddler to a toddler program next week for the first time. Have to fill out a form “bathroom waiver”, which is basically allowing teachers at the school to clean my child after a potty, including genital area. I feel uneasy about this but I know I have to let them… I assume all parents have signed such waiver?

Why this group is so silent?

Have 2 job offers: company A is fund accounting in investment firm (same as what I do now), company B is prestigious RE development doing ops and development accounting (not sure how valuable it is)

Planning a trip to Tokyo in 2022. Anyone have recommendations for travel planning services to use

Hi new friends! 31M, married, and living in Las Vegas. I’m a foodie, travel enthusiast, dog lover. If anyone ever vacations in Vegas, lmk.

Hello, Would you rather work with a fortune 50 company where you doing some very niche work or work as a lawyer in fintech which is 1/1000 as compared to the revenue of the f50 but the work is very varied. No two days are same. Wanted to understand perspective. Thanks!

Just broke up with bf of 11 months. First serious relationship. How long until this terrible feeling ends?

What’s your go-to way to “come out” to new people you meet at work if you’re not in a relationship

How was everyone’s Pride? I’m still struggling recovering from it…!

Do you think it’s acceptable to install Grindr on the corporate phone?

Twink needs professional mentor 😙😌😈

Any gay discord servers worth joining??

Dallas 🐠: oak lawn or bishop arts for a chill, outdoorsy female? Moving in a few months and need to pick an apartment! All tips appreciated.

Anyone have a place at fire island pines next weekend with room for 2?!

Any recommendations on private adoption agencies / law firms in NYC? Partner and I know of one in LA, but looking for one in NYC

Hey New York 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩. Is Henrietta Hudson 🏳️‍⚧️ friendly? 🏳️‍⚧️🙋🏻‍♀️ here.

What good shows did you watch this year, besides Schitts Creek and Workin Moms? Ideally on Netflix, comedy component, and queer :/)

Anyone else just go through a break-up? Mine happened just now... i don’t feel anything yet.

I’m 25/F, recently came out to my mother as gay and she was not receptive. I decided to send a message to my father and sisters to tell them next, and got crickets. I have a wonderful girlfriend and was so excited to share it with them, and it hurts to not have their support. I feel lucky that I have wonderful friends who do support me though. Anyone have any advice for how I’m feeling now? 🥺♥️ At the very least, I’m proud of myself for coming out and being me. Just lonelier than I imagined.

Gym gays, I’m on a massive gain phase atm (4700 cals a day) in trying to get ready for Summer 2022. How does one manage to maintain this whilst also occasionally btming 😂. I’m unable to and too scared to even try given how many trips to the bathroom I take (6/7). Plz help me or I’ll cry.

Lesbian bowl. Here ye here ye 0emvv