For those of you who have had no luck with apps, your future partner might be in these comments lol:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BzjyJAUgTQX/?igshid=bgcy7phtfp82

I've been with my gf for almost 6 months now. For context she's still in grad school (we have a 2 year age gap) and I'm struggling to feel physically attracted to her. I have a good job, decent amounts of stress, I like to work out, spend time with friends, and am very outgoing. She's super sweet, kind, sensitive, and brilliant. I find her attractive but I find the fact that she's always up in my business and available to me unattractive. She also just got an amazing job in another state (1/2)

I need some perspective. Why are the majority of TV ads casting interracial couples and families? Inclusion is one thing, but the volume has negative effects too. Me - Zero brand recall just annoyed.

My God, the number of kids on this flight

How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

Hello! I am 1:1 ParaPro for a 7th grader. We’ve been together for 6 years now. Any other 1:1?

Need advice pls . Been working in call center customer service for the past 15 years , since 2007. I work remotely .I really do love it . It’s convenient when you have young children. I just feel stuck , don’t have much education besides my high school diploma. How can I further my career and make more money in this field but not be stuck answering phone calls . All suggestions are very much appreciated

Eldest son in a family of 7. Dad's done so much and mom gave her life raising us. Dad drives a taxi and it's a dying business because of ride share apps. on bad days I just want to move out and live on my own. Am I selfish for thinking this? Would it be selfish if I move out. I've done so much for the family ever since we migrated here 10 yours ago and family brushes it off like it was nothing. I've had a job since I was 12 y/o.

This might be inappropriate but how often are the rest of you having sex with your significant other or spouse? We have little kids and I work 75 hours a week so I am lucky to hook up twice a week and even that is tough to schedule. My wife takes it personally if I am not all over her so I try to make an effort even when I am dead tired. But honestly lately I have been dreaming of a sexless marriage and anything else that will take some of the pressure off me.

Does anyone of good dating app reccos for seniors? My gramps is 85 and is ready to “get back out there.” My grandma passed away last year and Covid has been particularly lonely for him. He’s fairly good at technology, he’s my favorite person to snapchat and FaceTime, but we’re looking for something very easy to use. Thanks ❤️

A girl (she’s 22/23) in my condo is showing keen interest in me. I’m 31M, single and feel this will be a disaster to proceed with. It’s not like that I hate her or something. I just never thought about her.

Also just recovered from a bad breakup after 7+ years of relationship.

My boomer mother is retired HR exec. Whenever I ask for recommendations on address situations at work she recommends I get over it because I work from home. My new manager has boundary issues and talking it over with my boomer, I mean mother, I was told “who gets to do laundry at lunchtime?” Mmmkay, just because I had to buy the desk I sit at doesn’t mean I don’t work. 🤬 Burn my childhood home down or put her in a home?

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

I’m staying at my friends house and her dog won’t stop humping all of the pillows. I’ve tried to stop him many times but he’s strong and persistent. I’m hysterically laughing and have no idea how to stop this 🤣

How do you find a healthy balance between your job and your personal life?

Just discovering RSD after being diagnosed as an adult. I feel like SO MUCH of my life has been impacted by this and I just never had a name for it. At work if someone gives me negative or constructive feedback it can feel like a punch in the chest even if I know it's not personal. Makes romantic relationships so hard too. What do you do to handle it especially at work?

SO wants to leave a job <1yr in and go back to old firm (left on very good terms after being there for 4 yrs) Is this a bad idea?

Just some self affirmation. If her fear of commitment lands us not dating, I'll bounce back. I live in one of the most beautiful places in the world, have a loving family and many friends, and a rewarding job that challenges me. I'll rediscover inner peace before I date, and I'll find my long term partner eventually.

Welcome All.

We all can get help with Jobs Salary insights and suggestions.

This is basically to help young people stuck on toxic relationships or distracted from life.

This can be used to post confessions so that people can feel lighten up by sharing their story and not worry about privacy.

Marriages should be for 4 years terms and both parties must agree to renew it. It would end a lot of the nonsense going on.

It is astonish the kind of relationship advice that most people post here. Aside from one or other trying to be empathetic most people post stuff like “yeah you should just break up/divorce”. I’m always flabbergasted by the lack of respect for third party feelings and history. Here’s my advice to literally everyone in those threads. Go to therapy. Because you are either here seeking validation or dumping your own resentments into others.

Hi Fishes,

How would be the onsite opportunities for Boomi Developers in Infosys?

I recently received an offer from Infosys with just 30% hike so I am more inclined towards Onsite opportunity now.

Any suggestions would be much appreciated.

Echo and nuclear leaders and techs: is your facility 1) requiring COVID testing before exercise stress testing, 2) wear N95 and PPE, or 3) both testing and PPE?
Our clinic is removing the cost barrier of testing but staff are worried about risks since echo rooms don’t have HEPA or negative pressure systems and patients are allowed to remove their masks while running and breathing heavy during image acquisition.
Have you had good / bad experience with lack of Covid testing before stresses?

Hello, US/Canada dual citizen here. Planning to move to Canada in the next year or so. Anyone have any insight on how the tax situation works with me still having to pay US tax for the rest of my life? (Which is ridiculous in my mind but what are you going to do) Also any tips for the move? Thanks!

I just started as Sr Mgr of Creative Svcs for a small in-house operation. I have wide latitude to reconstruct the processes. I'm excited but a bit deer in the headlights. Anyone have good resources for this type of dept mgmt and process creation/improvement project?

It seems there's 1000 books on how to make the work, but almost nothing on how to make the system that makes the work... esp for in-house (a fair amount of 'start your own agency' resources out there).

My H1-B expires in April 2019. I am traveling abroad this December. Can I ask the immigration office to extend my visa for next 3 years prior to me traveling in December? Has anyone had a sim exp?

If you didn't have to pay off any more of your student loans what would you use the money for instead? I'm stuck between something impractical like a trip somewhere or something I need like a new car lol

Hi Fishes,

Need your suggestion

New company wants me to joining on 45th day of notice period but current company is not reliving me until 90th day

What should be done at this moment?

Tell me your experience if you have any , so that i could try

Thanks in advance

My husband has 3+ years of experience specializing in PL/SQL Development. Anyone have a lead for remote PL/SQL jobs? He's mostly looking on LinkedIn and working with recruiters, but is there better places to look? ZipRecruiter?

Was talking to a colleague who told me every email she read she would bill as an additional .1 to her block bill for that matter. How common is this? If it’s very common then I am undercutting myself because I add max .5 at the end of the day to capture my email reading time when I might get 200+ deal related emails a day

Is anyone having issues getting the Excelsior Plus pass? I got my vax at Duane Reade. Can get the Excelsior but not the Plus.

What's considered Boutique in consulting? Any examples of prestigious (or not) boutique firms? TIA

What is typical comp for an AD in big pharma in a commercial strategy role? Currently at 230k+20% in consulting, trying to gauge if pay would go up down or stay the same if I jumped to a client role. I think of my AD clients as junior to me but I realize I may have had some misconceptions about comp level on the client side

Any recruiter here who would like to work with a foreign-educated attorney without much experience?

I’m starting to think there is a very dark side to marketing. My whole job is basically manipulating people into spending money, often money they can’t afford. I’m really starting to question my career.

What is the culture of Salesforce practice within KPMG? How is it similar or different to rest of the company? Curious...

My I140 will not be approved before my max out date. Is it in my best interest to apply for H4 EAD or go on a leave until my I140 is approved? Can h4EAD and my I140 application happen in parallel?

When you book in advance with points you don’t have yet on Marriott, do you need to do anything once you earn them? Or do they get deducted as soon as you reach the needed amount?

Have I really let go if I am praying about something? Does letting go also mean to stop praying about it and just let it be?

Salam everyone, I’m looking to move to NYC. Let me know if anyone is looking for a roommate

Jummah Mubarak Fam ☪️💚

Jummah Mubarak Fam! 💚

How do you guys handle finances or hope to handle finances especially after marriage?

Doing user engagement, driving product adoption, doing strategy work, tbh no body really knows what they're hiring for it's a very loosely defined role

Any Financial Services consultants here? Interested in connecting and expanding your network?

Salam. Anyone else here a ‘Friday Muslim’, i.e. just pray Jummah? What are you doing to improve your Salah hygiene? Hoping to get better before Ramadan rolls around!

Has anyone tried halfourdeen for their marriage search? Wondering if it's worth the investment 🤔

Anyone wonder why wealthy Muslim countries like Saudi Arabia and the UAE are not taking in Muslim refugees?

iA planning on doing umrah this March. Any recommendations on packages, or booking hotels yourself? I have enough points for flight and hotel. Is it worth going with a group or buying it yourself?

Is there any Muslim organizations at Deloitte?

How is it perceived to indulge in amr bil ma’aroof wa nahiyy anil munkar with colleagues but after work, eg a teetotaler is going to a bar because of peer pressure and you could encourage them not to?

Suppose you die today and meet Allah (swt) and Allah Almighty asks you, “I gave you a good consulting career that provided you with halal income. How did you use it to benefit others?”

What will you say?

Any of the males in this group feeling attacked on here? Disturbing!