For those, who are immigrants, what made you stay in New York? Would be especially interested to hear from those who didn’t come for economical reasons. I am told the excitement about the city wears off 😅 I am European, just came 2 years ago and am still loving it, but also start to wonder if staying in a job I don’t like it’s all worth it (I am on L1 visa, so no way to find a new job). Life in Europe isn’t too bad either.

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The extra money here even relative to NYC rent makes it worth it for me. I will be able to pay off my mortgage in my home country on the next couple years. I also have world class treatment for my medical condition. I do like my job though! Are you thinking of green card sponsorship?

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Thinking about GC but my company requires you to be with them for a couple years before they sponsor it.
I think my financial situation would also be much better in my home country 😅 more leverage to negotiate especially with the NYC work experience. I really came here to experience the lifestyle in NYC, my home country has a much better social system too.

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Ask whoever you work for to sponsor your GC - that way you can also have a fulfilling work life when you have it and can move.

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So you love NYC but not the job? That’s a tough one to answer; it depends on whether you value having the perfect career more than enjoying your youth in a world class city. I know what my answer would be (career) but that may not be the case for you.

As a fellow immigrant, I didn’t purposefully find a way to NYC. My best job offer just happened to be here.

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We moved to NYC for money. Before we moved here, we had a perfectly amazing life in the west coast. We always thought we'd live in the west and not move again. But here we are.. 2 years and 2 months later, we're thinking of settling down in NYC. NYC means a lot of things to a lot of people. We're not crazy about the city although we do enjoy occasional things: traveling int'l, nightlife, some food scene, live events, etc. However for long term career progression and for raising kids, NYC still offers some of the best options. So we might stick around afterall.

Also, an immigrant and currently a US citizen.

Omg OP, I am every lines you wrote.
Only difference: I have this man I love here (and who loves me too). Otherwise I think I would have returned back home.
I am not happy with the job and also can’t leave because of my L1 visa. I am not saving significantly more than back home (because of medical expenses and 401k which would not be on my budget where I am from). I also miss having close friends as I could not build meaningful friendships here yet.

It is a difficult balance to find. Let us know what you end up deciding.

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