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Not right away, maybe 2-3 dates - now very happily married for 15 years ❤️
Pro
I felt the spark on the second date, especially when he kissed me 😍. Can’t say there was spark on the first date; in fact I didn’t think I’d hear from him again lol
Yes, I felt the spark right away! No, I don't go on more dates to let attraction grow if I know I'm not attracted to them, mostly because my attraction stems from them having a specific personality/sense of humor and us having natural chemistry, and more dates doesn't change that compatibility in my experience. I know I want to pursue it further because it just feels "right"; it feels natural, I like spending time with them and who I am around them, we have fun, and our lifestyles are compatible. Sorry if this isn't helpful because it seems like I might take things a bit faster than you, but just wanted to offer my perspective :)
Sparks right away, otherwise I wouldn’t entertain a second date 🤣
Rising Star
At least a certain level of spark I would say, probably not head over heels but some attraction.