For women who have had babies… when did you tell work you were pregnant?

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I told after the first trimester. That timing is usually “outside” of the “typical” miscarriage period. If you have complications early on, I would recommend discussing with your boss and potentially HR

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I waited until the start of the second trimester. I wanted to clear that first big hurdle before bringing it up, just in case.

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