So I’m on a milk donation group because donor moms (love them!) have helped with milk for my baby. Of late I see a lot of posts as below - def okay with personal preference of the donor meds and vaccines but each person spells it out differently like “no c v*x” etc. is this a thing? I feel like they’re addressing lord Voldemort
Not yet a dad but hopefully some day soon. Curious about how you and your spouse got pregnant. Was it an intense, thoroughly tracked process (aka we HAVE to have time together TODAY) or a more (cont.)
Jamming to Ice Ice Baby...don't judge me 🤓
Any thoughts on raising a child vegan? We have a few months before she can eat solids but this topic has divided our family in half. Looking for guidance.
Does anyone have recommendations for thought leaders/influencers in the M&A space? Looking for blogs, books, YouTube videos? Not currently in the space, trying to learn more as I’m thinking about a pivot after a few years in consulting/startups
I’m in a rather peculiar situation. I have been in the HR field going on 4 years, I have over 11 years of management experience, I got my PHR last year and I recently graduated with my MBA with a concentration in HR this month. I am ready for a more challenging role. However, there doesn’t seem to be much available at my current company. However, I am going on 5 months pregnant with the expectation of being out in October. I feel like once I mentioned my pregnancy I was in a holding pattern.
I am severely burned out and my boss tells me to suck it up. He's been a realtor for 50 years only because he inherited this company from his father, but he never had to do any of the hard lifting. Being a realtor is hard and tiring, y'all.
I work at a preschool that redirects disruptive students by giving them a book to calm down and regroup. Do you think this is a good practice or does it ultimately lead the student to see reading as punishment?
Feb 2020: IUI leading to miscarriage at 7 weeks. August 2020: IVF frozen transfer (ICSI), miscarriage at 6 weeks. February 2021: IVF transfer #2, went for 8 week US today, baby’s measuring on track, heart rate of 170, I saw the heart beat and baby gave a little wiggle. Graduated from our fertility clinic, with 10 week US scheduled for
2 weeks from today. For now....the happiness is real (I’m the hubby btw).
As a parent, do you prioritize making career choices that are “safe” but not inspiring, or do you prioritize making the choices that are less safe but help you realize your full potential? I’m faced with such a choice, and while I’m fine with my safe job, I get stuck on how to explain myself to my daughters someday because I feel I’d want more for them. I feel a lot of pressure to model the right thing for them, especially as a same sex parent - anyone else?
I have 3 offers -
Born group offering me a lead role with 23 lpa
Epam offering me a senior dev role with 25 lpa
IBM offering me a manager role with 30 lpa ...
The decision looks very clear where many are suggesting to go with IBM but still from other aspects like WLB, hire/fire attitude,culture, growth etc what is recommended? For me being a mother WLB takes priority since I have quite a few family responsibilities ...
About to be a first-time father. My wife is taking a break from nursing to be a stay-at-home mom for a while when our child is born and said she'll get up at night to take care of him. I want her to have a happy and healthy recovery though, so I don't want her to be up all the time if our baby happens to cry a lot.
Was the snoo helpful for anyone? There's a sale and I'm thinking of buying one as a surprise. Just want to be a supportive husband and father. Thanks!
Serious question- how on earth do first time parents pick out things for a registry? Like if you haven’t managed your own child, how do you know if you like this carrier or that? This lounger or that? Do people just trust their closest friend/advisor and mimic their decisions? I’ve spent so much time reading the diff bw strollers (which clearly is the hardest decision) - bloggers, Buying Guides, etc- and my head is going to explode 🤯. Gift cards it is 😆
Just wanted to share fantastic leadership book my executive coach just released. It’s great! Clear, concise and an easy read. And no I don’t anything for recommending it, it’s genuine! (The e-reader version is only $0.99) Spark Brilliance: How the Science of Positive Psychology Will Ignite, Engage, and Transform Your Team https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09SNLCW7Q/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_F3M21RCQ9KTGGQDMRVA7
What are some things you’d have done immediately, or differently at work as soon as you found out you were pregnant (asking for a friend)
We are looking for a #seniorjavadeveloper who has the ability to drastically improve application functioning within a business through the speed and scalability of their solutions. The ideal candidate will be a seasoned developer, familiar with a variety of designs,
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Latest episode posted! “Generals in the Making” is a gem of a leadership book and should be required reading for any early or mid-level professional. The book is an engrossing examination of how four army generals of World War II, each a major player in their own right, navigated the uncertain and tumultuous pre-war years in their careers. sphttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/black-market-leadership/id1523238553?i=1000533915181
I’ve hit an absolute brick wall when it comes to finding for a new job. I’ve had almost a dozen interviews that lead nowhere and been ghosted by a ton of recruiters. Would anyone be available to look over my book and give me some advice? 🙏
Recently moved in-house from big law. Does anyone else find in-house a little ... lonely? Maybe it’s because we’re remote now, or because I’m the new kid on the block trying to make friends. Either way, I’m missing the camaraderie I had at my firm.
Is it possible to get IT to send me a monitor or is there a tech subsidy? *new hire here
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Are there any jobs that teach sql?
Stressful time folks.Labor and 140 approved.Found a new job and leaving consulting.Filed H1B transfer and waiting for receipt notice.Just made the premium processing deadline I think
Any thought on SVB Leerink TMT? They poached the entire UBS tech I think. It seems like a brand new group and the recruiter said to me that it would be a great opportunity but I am curious to hear your thoughts about joining a new group. Thanks!
Have you ever accepted a job and started working to find out details weren’t true? Ie what division of the company it was under, other guarantees falling through. If so, did you continue working there, or address the matter?
When I hear the fact pattern — oh I know exactly how to try that case. They are going downnnn
When I am writing a brief/memo in the aforementioned fact pattern — god grant me the serenity to accept the things idk 😭 and the courage to change the law if I can and the wisdom to know the difference
Went to a happy hour yesterday, and while I remember almost everything, I do not probably remember 5% of convos. I’m not someone who acts stupid/immature but have been dealing with some stuff personally. Really kicking myself for my behavior and feeling stressed. If I said anything shitty, would people ping me to tell? Work went on as normal today, but still feeling uneasy..
Considering getting a Nomos Orion with the display caseback as my first serious watch. Any other good options around this price point I should consider?
Applied for a role with Salesforce and had both a talent advisor and corporate recruiter reach out to schedule time to talk about the role. Is this normal for the recruiting process for two different people to reach out to schedule time? Is one more senior than the other/different approach?
Need some guidance. I am currently in Advanced Services with 90k base pay and no stocks options in Texas, I can be a TAM but I don't think the
company will pay me a lot more. I am looking into presales type of positions as I want get out technical troubleshooting roles and I have a good background in Networking and Network Security with 6+ years of experience. Microsoft Palo Alto Networks VMware Dell .....comment section continued post.
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Tips for managing an overstepping translator? Behaviors include insisting to file prematurely and answering on behalf of the client without asking the question to the client.
Would microneedling help with acne scars?
Any referrals for Presales related jobs? I have 3+ YOE in IT (non-tech). Currently working as an IT Presales Consultant dealing with RFPs/RFIs across varied domains.
Off topic question but needed help can some suggest one good packers and movers in Hyderabad city (local shifting)
Last time booked local packers and movers they damaged
A good strategy I have is to see what type of client I am talking to and make dinner in the house for that person. I mean, if it is a couple I prepare a romantic dinner for two, and I tell them to come well-dressed and let them enjoy the dinner in the house. If it is a family, I prepare a family dinner and prepare the family table for all the people who would live in the house. Making them feel at home before buying the house does not fail, what do you think? What other strategies do you use?
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I’ll probably get reported for this but damn do some of you all need a life. All you I see everyday is people crapping on other people for where they were born. This is a definition of bullying. You all pick the most obscure topic and want to start a competition over it. Life’s too short to have arguments with strangers on the internet. It’s nauseating, and I’m putting it mildly.
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Is it true that you can travel to Mexico, Canada and a handful other countries from USA on an expired H1B and gain entry to USA?!
Taking parents to visit east coast this summer, besides NYC, DC & Boston, where else is worth the visit?
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Does this have the vital role RSS and Modi? If not, then it’s crap