Haha that's a weird assumption based on what I wrote. As I said, he does show me that he likes me in various other ways. But he told me that he doesn't like PDA and he's very private about physical things. It took him a while to be into hugging even. Plus it takes him a while to trust people in general. I tend to be touchy anywhere and it's how I show affection. And I'm also very open quickly. So it's just a big adjustment for me that I can't like lean on him or hug him all the time or randomly. And I'm not sure when or if he'll ever be comfy with that in public. But it's only been a few weeks so who knows. But saying he's not into me is unfounded, and this is coming someone who usually doubts this stuff til the last second.
Tell them you what you need in this relationship. If he's uncomfortable or not interested. You might have to talk it out more about why he's uncomfortable. Understanding your partner helps you both.
Yeah, I don't think he's ready to tell me fully why he's so guarded physically/mentally. He just said he's gotten hurt before. But he does open up to me so I think we can get there. I just have to get through this early stage which is hard since I have to restrain my natural self. But I'll try my best to make him comfortable. Thanks! :)
Adjust or find someone who also values physical touch as much as you do. My partner was extremely touchy and clingy. I’m not someone who likes to be touched especially without my consent. It was a turn off. Like why you touching my face while your driving or trying to hold my hand? It’s just a lot for me especially when you don’t grow up that way. We’ve found common ground and I’ve learned to compromise with him as well. Continue to have very open lines of communications but don’t push boundaries. I think it’s important to understand why he feels that way too
I’m joining Accenture Applied Intelligence group as a level 9 analytics consultant. My offer says that this role is aligned to Strategy and Consulting. Can anyone with experience explain if this role is more aligned to strategy or consulting ?
Rising Star
Please be mindful and respectful of boundaries.
Although I realize that may be too much to ask of Single Consultants.
They certainly did not respect the boundaries of this bowl.
Wait what
Enthusiast
He’s just not that into you.
Chief
Haha that's a weird assumption based on what I wrote. As I said, he does show me that he likes me in various other ways. But he told me that he doesn't like PDA and he's very private about physical things. It took him a while to be into hugging even. Plus it takes him a while to trust people in general. I tend to be touchy anywhere and it's how I show affection. And I'm also very open quickly. So it's just a big adjustment for me that I can't like lean on him or hug him all the time or randomly. And I'm not sure when or if he'll ever be comfy with that in public. But it's only been a few weeks so who knows. But saying he's not into me is unfounded, and this is coming someone who usually doubts this stuff til the last second.
Tell them you what you need in this relationship. If he's uncomfortable or not interested. You might have to talk it out more about why he's uncomfortable. Understanding your partner helps you both.
Chief
Yeah, I don't think he's ready to tell me fully why he's so guarded physically/mentally. He just said he's gotten hurt before. But he does open up to me so I think we can get there. I just have to get through this early stage which is hard since I have to restrain my natural self. But I'll try my best to make him comfortable. Thanks! :)
Adjust or find someone who also values physical touch as much as you do. My partner was extremely touchy and clingy. I’m not someone who likes to be touched especially without my consent. It was a turn off. Like why you touching my face while your driving or trying to hold my hand? It’s just a lot for me especially when you don’t grow up that way. We’ve found common ground and I’ve learned to compromise with him as well. Continue to have very open lines of communications but don’t push boundaries. I think it’s important to understand why he feels that way too
Enthusiast
I'm confused is he your crush or you're talking to him? Don't go touching your crush randomly