Friends nag on me why I'm not dating, reason is I've gained weight I'm not comfortable with and not confident in myself until I loose weight to start dating again. Happen to anyone?

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Hell just get out there. Work out. Good boyfriend will not mind a few extra pounds.

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Sorry man. I am a girl, so look at everything from girl perspective. Didn't realize that fishbowl would teach me regarding unconscious bias.

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Lol "checked" - fair enough

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Yup. Happens during or right after breakups all the time.

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PwC1 - What makes you assume that the poster is a girl? It happens to boys too

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25????? Just a baby. Lose that weight, and hit the town, son. Don't waste time on the ex. I am 33, and I just don't care about guys. Only just starting to date b/c mom is pressuring. Not gay, checked. Too career-focused I guess.

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Same issue too

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Clarify - I am a male and broke up with my ex after 4 years and took it rough and and gained an extra 25 lbs. really don't have an excuse why I gained it or why I haven't lost it other then that I'm still not over her

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Story of my life... But i am going to the gym today 💪🏾 self love is the best love of all. Change your mind and everything else will fall into place. "If he/she doesn't like you at your worse, he/she doesn't deserve you at your best"

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Op: just saw a friend of mine, who is a divorcee with 2 kids, found herself a rich Doctor. 2nd rich Doctor mind you. Meanwhile I have been working on a proposal to impress my RP. I am TOTAlly hitting a speed dating event tonight.

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Story of my life 😂

Happens all the time! And it's a good motivation point to get back into fitness. Stay at it!

I'm a girl too FYI

I have the same reason for not dating lately

D2 - guys are less weight conscious as a general rule. Probably due to portrayal of women in media.

OP how old are you? Work out man and reclaim your self-worth. If you stayed with her for 4 years, you are clearly a good one.

Yep. I'm there now too. I've on not satisfied with my self I'm nit comfortable being with any one else

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