Gay men: has sniffies replaced Grindr?

Feel like there’s been a noticeable shift.

m in salesforce and having around 13 YOE. relevant 5 years.
Should I join a startup with 100-150 people as a salesforce solution architect or big farm like Accenture?

Both are paying equally. Please help me with suggestions!

Anyone go from SC at one firm to Manager at another? How do you sell yourself that extra step to convince them you are capable? And how do you address the question of why you haven't been promoted?

Haven’t owned a car in 4 years and thinking of treating myself to an Alfa Romeo Giulia 2021 on lease. I can easily afford it but justifying 500 a month on lease payments is kind of hard to swallow. Any Giulia owners/drivers here who can help swing my decision? I think I’m 60% there

35F Where do people meet these days? Tired dating apps but they did not work for me. Hard to grasp chemistry

After being underpaid and undervalued at a previous employer, I’ve now doubled my comp in less than a year. Taking my talents to FAANG gang! Don’t give up! TC: $250K

What is the best dating app for men in late 20s/early 30s?

Anyone from Genpact has received retention hike by showing current offer in hand ?

Hi Capgemini New joiners,

I have accepted the offer . However, there is very small mistake in my address. Everything is correct just an additional state name is mentioned , original state name is also mentioned . Do you think it will cause an issue at time of joining or can be ignored ? Please suggest .should I highlight this to my recruiter .

I am looking to an early reply

Who’s hiring seniors? Not much online at the moment and trying to get the scoop 🍨

Hi everyone! I am an MD (pediatrician w/out fellowship) with a lot of experience in bench and clinical research, as well as 1 year of experience in early phase oncology clinical trials. I am looking to transition from a heavy clinical role to more of a role in pharmacovigilance/medical monitor/ clinical development or medical affairs.

Would love a referral to a company to get my foot in the door or further advice in maximizing my opportunities to land an interview. TIA!

What happens when you disclose to your firm that you've recently been diagnosed with depression and anxiety? I know I suffer from those things, I've just never had to disclose a disability to my job before and I'm kind of nervous about it.

How much rent amount should I pay to get maximum tax deduction?

Is there anyone here interested in community theatre/taking acting classes? Moved to the city recently and have always wanted to pursue acting

IMTE ?
The product looks cool and the chart is wild, thinking about opening a position.

Where does your analytics/marketing sciences department fit into your organization? Does it sit in media as a reporting function? Does it handle basic reporting and advanced analytics or are those handled separately?

This is the longest I’ve gone without any sexual activities with another person. I’m dying.

Anyone play tennis in ATX?

Anyone in Bengaluru next week?

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

Looking for some advice. As a member of LGBTQ, is it better to work for smaller or larger firms? In terms of Overall equality, culture, support & embracing diversity.

Also specifically at banking/PE/VC funds in NYC. Appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

Decided I finally want to try to get back into shape after years of neglect. I found a personal trainer a few months ago that can work around my schedule, but the quote I received last week seemed really high. It’d be 1-on-1 and at a private studio, so I knew it’d be slightly expensive, but the monthly cost is like $1,500 for 12 sessions. Is that reasonable? This is in a HCOL city.

Gays bottom, how do you clean yourself "down there". This year I started to bottom more. I spent the last 5 years being 99% top, so I don't know how to prepare myself. How much water is too much? And so many other questions...Any other technique?

Been seeing the same guy for 6 months and still haven’t had the DTR talk. It’s both of our first long term “relationships” since coming out and think we are equally scared to have the convo. Any tips?

Whenever I was on date with guys, they always invited me to their home 😅😅. I’m quite sensitive about “home” lol. Or when I go to bar/ club, I met some guys they also invited me to their home too. although I told them I was looking for relationship (I need to be loved 🥺🥺). They told me “it is a quiet place we can chat” lmao. I always try to stay away from home when dating for a few months lol. Do you guys have the same problem? What do you normally answer to them?

What do: this fit af dude keeps flirting with me at post-work drinks, like squeezing my arms, joking that we're going out and asking me to show him round my neighborhood. Problem is, he has a gf -

Folks who are married/in long-term relationship:
-How did you meet your partner?
-How long have you been together?
-Were there moments in the relationship when you wanted to give up, but you didn't? What stopped you?

Looking for some hope and positivity that it is possible to have serious relationships in LGBT community. Thanks in advance for sharing!

Finally got on the HER app because I’m determined to have a sweet romantic Valentine’s Day this year. Anybody got words of encouragement?

In LA tonight. Anything to do in LA? Please recommend. I appreciate it!

Fellow gay fish. Thoughts on a PPO v HDHP (w/ HSA) for health insurance? I’ve always done the PPO with higher premiums because the high deductible scares me, especially with 4+ visits to PCP and lab draws, plus other STI testing. Anyone else have experience or advice on selecting between the two? I did some modeling and it seemed like the HDHP would be better but would love additional advice.

I should have just got on PREP..

Y’all, I legit haven’t met any guys organically. I play social sports that I have gone to parties. But then I’m still single and don’t ever get asked to go on dates ugh

Anyone else 🤤 when American Ninja Warrior comes on?

1- If you got the 🐒🦠 vaccine I am happy for you, but remember that most people don’t have access to it right now, so when you post your selfies on Instagram it makes people feel bad; 2- people with husbands/in a relationship, it would be helpful if you could wait to get your vaccines. Some of us are single/dating. I just saw some “hubbies” on social media who posted they got vaccinated and doesn’t seem right to me. Kthxbye.

What's the discord link again?