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Girl who has written “Honest, Good Person, Well educated person” as her choice, rejected me because of my hair loss. Why girls are so fake? Please write the truth in your demands.

Got a message from her father that “family is not interested”. Who the hell are you saying such things. Fake Family.

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Don't take it on your ego. Nobody can mention the 100+ items they might want in a profile. You have the right to reject them and so does she. No harm done as it was during initial discussions.

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Emotion only kicks in when business deal turns to be good. 😂
Before that, marriage is considered as only business deal nowadays
Vo kitna kamaata h, Ghar kitna bda h, konsi locality mein h, so on and on....

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Are wo dikhane ke liye likh dete h yaar har kuch. Reality has nothing to do with what they write. You have seen for yourself. Forget everything and move on, and remember this can again happen in future so don't give it too kuch weightage

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Girl can't write 300 page essay about everything she wants

Don't get your ego hurt

Relax and move on

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ITA bro I'm that same guy who told you 'Welcome back' a few days ago 😂 😂

And I'm definitely not feminist I'm more on your side than theirs

I'm just saying in this situation it is not valid to expect girls to update everything

Do guys write i want 36 24 36 in their marital bio.

Some basic things are not written explicitly but understood by both parties

Hrr kisi ko shahrukh khan chahiye , anupam khair ko koi nhi poochta...

Same happened with me a year ago , now i am growing beard and trying to get 6 packs.

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You dodged a bullet with their family, bro.

Don't go for costly hair transplant routes. Diet helps in controlling the hair loss. I was in the same boat as you too earlier.

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And what happened after that, when my father told about my salary then they came back saying “if we can plan to met”. Then I said no. 😝

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Agree with your point.

Get a hair transplant bro , aajkal supply zaada badh gya hai

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I know someone who spent 2 lakhs rupees on transplant...to hide the same thing.

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Why to change for a girl? Will the girl do whatever I want her to change in her body?

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Bhai Bala dekho aur move on to the next prospective alliance...

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U might have also rejected a girl based on her looks. It's same for both the sides.
Nothing to take it on heart.
Just move on!!
It's part of the life....

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Bhai ya toh paisa kamao itna hi baal na dekhna pade logo ko ya below average ladki se kaam chalao no other go.

Aaj kal toh average walo ko bhi sharukh chahiye

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Bro people say no to marriages for all kinds of reasons. It doesnt matter boy or a girl. Women are rejected for there skin color or weight too. Stop generalising women if one of them treats you badly.

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Do hair transplant's really work??

I am not in favour of doing so. It does work. But still we need to take utmost care of hair after that as well.

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@Zs3 agree we should not generalize but most of them and their families have become gold diggers.

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