There's nothing like a parent complaint email to start your morning. 😣

Serious question: how do you deal with an overbearing mother in law? I’m truly struggling with how to set boundaries without coming off like I hate my husbands mom. I don’t hate her, I just don’t want to talk to her every day and play 20 questions about what’s going on in our lives when we see them in person once a month already. It’s super stressful to even text her because she’s a highly judgemental person and questions every decision we make. I’m just at a loss with what to do. Send help plz.

So I'm a single dad, which I feel can be tough sometimes - doesn't fit with gender norms. It's the professional equivalent of not having baby changing stations in the mens room.

Has anyone been able to get pregnant/have a healthy pregnancy with a mild uterine prolapse?

How comfortable are your in laws with your parents and vice a versa? And how do you handle situations where they may be in close proximity with each other, I.e. first baby’s virtual baby shower? There’s some weird competition/tension going on between my MIL and mom since our wedding where MIL says unnecessarily competitive things and makes things awkward in the whole family.

TMI question, but i stopped nursing my second kid 2 years ago and I’m still producing a trickle of milk. Does this ever go away? I even had undersupply, so it’s not like I have bionic boobs!

Is it okay to golf while pregnant? I’m early in my second trimester. My doctor said it was fine, but I just wanted to validate with others before doing it (always paranoid hah)

Looking for hope & exceptions with this situation my inlaw (German citizen) is in. They came over on Fulbright and now is on O1 but in exile back in Germany. I know it’s a long shot but has anyone been in this situation and transitioned to permanent US residency? They are married to a US citizen and have a kid (born in US). Immigration attorneys are not super helpful on precedent.

Fucking crying baby on my plane. Why can't there be a families only airline

What is the leave policy in Verizon data services India??
Is it true that there is a 8 week paternity leave?

So I am about to go on maternity leave soon..wondering if when I am leave is this is a good time to look for a new job since my current job will not likely extend WHF after February 2021.

Have any of you been successful in eliminating your belly after pregnancy? I lost the baby weight , however , my belly is still wrinkly and flaccid.

Does anyone have a foolproof process for those mystery daycare stains?

I use the Puracy stain remover from Amazon as a pretreatment and that gets 90% of things. If that doesn't work, I try a Shout stain remover and a pre soak in Oxyclean. If that doesn't work, I mourn (and realistically still put my kid in that clothing item anyway).

24F
Mother Tongue: Telugu
Qualification: B.Tech
Profession: software engineer
Location: Hyderabad
Salary: 12 LPA
height: 4'10
Caste: vysya
Looking for a telugu software guy for marriage.

I'm done with this app. People are talking about that parents don't have the right to know if their kid wants to be called by a different pronoun and keeping things from parents. Makes me sick. I told them they're all fucked in the head. So I'll be booted soon. Good knowing some of you. Peace.

What brand and type of baby wipes do you all recommend?

Hello fellow HR pros! I really need your opinions on HR certifications. I am deciding between PHR and SHRM-cp. I have read just about all there is online comparing the two and can not decide. My heart is telling me PHR, my mother in law (an HRBP) is telling me to go with SHRM, as it’s more widely recognized, more established and a larger network in general. I work for a 350~ company who is growing rapidly through M&A. Passions/interests are compliance, strategic vision, M&A, branding and culture

How are your schools handling parent teacher conferences during this Covid time?

How do you deal with a child who will pee on themselves for the attention? I have a student who does this two-three times a week. I have never experienced his before, and not sure what to do.

Hi ladies. I had an early miscarriage (4-5 weeks) and I just wanted to get a sense of what’s “normal” after. For others who had it, did you have severe cramping for up to 48hrs after? Or should I be worried?

For parents who have nannies: do you typically give a holiday bonus? And if so, how much?

Hi Friends,

What should be ideal pay for Project manager with 15 years of experience?

I am having 1.9yoe in startup who paid cash and given payslip and service letter, I joined tcs as fresher they didn't checked my startup company details.
I have worked 1year in tcs.
I got offer from Nagarro recently, how they do bgc or bgv ?

I have only payslip of startup and experience letter.
I have got all docs for tcs experience.

Please help me.

Hi All,

Please provide referrals or leads for the legal hiring in BIG 4.
I hold 3 years of experience in Legal Contract Management and have done my LLM too. Pls DM or connect. Your input would be highly appreciated.

Thanks!

I had a salary negotiation convo with HR and he gave the breakup through email and I have accepted that breakup ,can anyone say how many days I need to wait for getting offer letter from HCL

We’re in Spain (aka home to amazing food and multiple meals) and I was clothes shopping and just felt so ashamed about the extra rolls I’ve developed. We have a week left and I’m trying to maintain mindful eating but I’m terrified to weigh myself when we return. I don’t want to calorie count as it could trigger my body dysmorphia/bad food relationship but may have to. Any non-fad methods I can do to drop the weight now and when we return w/o killing the vacation vibe?

Partners: how do you retain talents who were up for Partner promo, but was not selected. Or counciled out to make room for next crop?

Post your comments
Indian job market:
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I have seen people are getting selected for N number of companies and posting here to know which offer is best.
Are they accepting offers from all the companies?
If no, are the companies giving that much time to accept the offer letter?
Is it ethical to accept an offer from a company and choose not to join due to the high CTC from an other company?
90 days of notice period impacting not only the candidates but also the companies

Is anyone willing to share tips on avoiding burnout and setting boundaries with their executives? I have six people on my desk and am finding it difficult to stay motivated and continue giving everyone the same level of support.

Will i get my raise if i put my notice 1st week of Oct?

I hear, a few designers left bbh nyc

Progesterone Inserts. This is day 1 and I’m already struggling! How do you get through this grossness for 40 days? Any tips and tricks?

What do you think are the pros and cons of working at a large insurance company vs. a small one? Considering a jump from big (been with a few carriers for ~15 years) to much smaller but growing.

I work in Group Insurance if that makes a difference.

Do you need a cover letter these days?

Is there anyone who took summertime yesterday.. please let me know

🐠, how do you feel at ease enjoying the luck you’ve had and the fruits of your labors? I’m 28, single, and by all accounts financially thriving - on my way to $200k+ in income for 2022 and have a ~$300k net worth. Additionally, I happen to be the only child of well-off parents.

However, I’m tortured by a slow start to my career that led me to bleed cash for years to live comfortably (no roommates, travel, going out) and the loss of 80% of my parents’ money relatively late in their lives.

Have no idea where to start in terms of creating passive income / side hustles.. I plan on starting to research and invest in dividend paying stocks but other than that I have no idea that isn’t starting a business which I’m not too keen on right now and real estate which is outrageously expensive as I’m in London… any ideas or even help in where to start? TIA

Did ANYONE buy NETFLIX today?

How do you know if you’re being too picky as a first time home buyer? Or is there no such thing as too picky? So discouraged by what I’m seeing 😕

Under 26, so still under my parents’ health insurance - I have a younger sister as well so I don’t think it’s an added expense for them to have me on it as well. Have the option to sign up for my employer’s HDHP plan - no premiums and they contribute $1,000 per year to my HSA. Sounds like free money, but is there a reason I’m missing that favors just staying on my parents’?

Anyone on here use Lending Club for micro lending?

Thinking of buying a condo with boyfriend, all cash, he would contribute half and I would contribute half. We aren’t married. Has anyone else done this? Issues to be aware of?

25M. I’m gonna spend 20k to get into the stock market for the first time ever. I’m way too late but better late than never. Also gonna save 10k in high yield savings for my 30k in student loans (in addition to monthly savings). Thoughts on this? Boeing, Live Nation, VOO, USO, Amazon, Square, Disney, Spotify, Walmart, and Lynas (rare earths)

Anyone think market hit the bottom?

Income, net worth and happiness wealth nor happiness can be seen through possessions

Folks, thoughts on FXILX and FTIHX please?

Looking at history of S&P there are times where for 10-15 consecutive years the price trends negative…. Dreading we are due for this again.

Any recommendations on a tax person? My wife and I have fairly straightforward deductions, but we work in NY/ have lived out of state this year, and she pays union fees / agent fees. Are previous tax person has changed careers. Thx

200K equity in current property with HHI of roughly 200K/yr. Would you choose to buy a property in a city (much better school zone) for ~700K or save that cash for things such as private school?

I'm new to the US, should I invest in my 401k and use my company match (up to 6%) or hold off until things settle?

I’m new to personal finance, my entire 401k is in a Vanguard Target Retirement 20xx Trust Select fund. Is there anything you would do differently?

Absolute newbie. Feeling a lot of anxiety about being late to the party. What resources do you recommend for understanding the basics and getting started? I have a Roth IRA account but no investments started yet. I’m 35, starting to have kids, have mortgage and some cc debt, no car loan at the moment. 401k is set up but I need to roll old ones over (yes?). I am very lost. Thank you.

Posted in other bowl but only got goofy answers. Anyhow: $13k Canadian Dollar for 2016 Honda Civic coupe 100km. What do you think ?

Just opened a HYS with Marcus and linked a savings account. Will I need to pay an electronic funds transfer fee every time I want to put money into it, eg every paycheck? What do you all do? Thanks!