Going through a breakup now- we dated for 8 months and have been getting into fights multiple times per week and it’s become toxic (swearing/name calling from him). Yesterday got in a dumb fight and ended up taking all my stuff from his place and we returned our keys, and haven’t talked since. Need inspo stories from ppl who went through something similar. Any recs for moving on?

Another one for the parents: if you originally didn’t want kids and ended up changing your mind, when did you change your mind and why?

What does anyone do for help in transitioning? I have a child who has completely stopped transitioning from my room to the speech room next door

Here 28 weeks pregnant and tired of hearing you would need to do this for better lactation, you would have sleepless nights. Can a new mother not figure out on her own with the right scientific knowledge ? Is it important to go by what your parents , in-laws or known ones tell you ?

How do you guys make new friends in LA for an over 40 gay CPA? Corp culture, gay or straight, in LA is like that in Japan...either drink or become isolated in both your personal and professional life.

How helpful is it to have roommates during your MBA? Did anyone feel like living alone made things difficult?

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

Welcome to all single parents or those interested in supporting and learning more about single parents!

Why do men in power love being disrespected by junior women? 🤗 is it mommy issues? Am I mommy now?

Biglaw single parents? I’m a recently single parent. My ex is (almost) completely out of the picture now. Any other biglaw single parents with tips or tricks to making this work on my own?

Did most of your friends join consulting after grad or just you?

After 22 yrs, my wife and I are divorcing. I loved this business so much we grew apart. I hated this business so much I took it home with me. Weekends are for family who love you not agencies who dont

How introverted are you? EVERY time I’m around a group of people I wind up exhausted. It’s almost funny. I’ve learned to be present and I can handle the room, but when I leave…100% need a nap. It’s so predictable that I even share my calendar with SO. He schedules his WFH calls to avoid that hour after my in-person meetings. Smh. Is this weird??

Looking for advice on how to best balance WFH in same environment as spouses / SOs…

(38F). My boyfriend (39M) after 2 years together (long distance but travel to one another and spend time), suddenly told me he wants to try to be a musician again. He did this in his 20s , failed and started his corporate career at 26. He’s a Senior Manager in Fl but i personally feel is underpaid. He was supposed to move in to my place in September and start living together. I initially told him I would support his music on the side while he pursues his corporate career full time. *Cntd below*

Welp, I’m off to the home office while my wife goes and plays D&D with our new group. Sad to miss it, but feeling freaking lucky as F that I have a fun partner. We also kill at Fortnite together 🥵

Why do we always tell people “Be the best version of yourself before starting a relationship?”
I feel this is wrong…first, if you’re someone who constantly wants to be better, this doesn’t work. Also, what happens when you’re going through things and you’re not the best version? What happens is…the going gets tough and then one person leaves the other.

Male in my mid 30s. How many of you end up hanging out with younger people only to feel disappointed because the friends around your age are either married or live in some other state? Every time I hang out, I find myself questioning, what am I doing with my life.

Has anyone ever left their jobs (without one lined up) to be with their spouse (currently in a serious long distance relationship)? How did it turn out for you?

Anyone proposed to your SO that you dated for under a year? How did that play out in the long run?

My boyfriend of 6 months just broke up with me 😔 yeah I know 6 months wasn’t that long but it was one of those relationships where we hit it off instantly. We spent every single day together, talked on the phone for hours, he was literally my best friend and we felt so comfortable with each other. We both expressed that this was a relationship we wanted to eventually become a marriage. We had a few typical relationship arguments but always tried to manage them. (Continued in comments)

Any tips and tricks for managing projects and priorities form multiple product teams? We have a decentralized UX team where every UX designer participates in weekly product meetings and designs for 6 to 8 product teams.

Can somebody resign during maternity break to join a new job? Or is it mandatory to join back, serve 2 weeks of notice then resign? Is that doable in Ontario? I do not want to check this with my HR. I work in wipro Canada currently

What are exit opps for M&A consulting? I have experience in Target screening, commercial and operational due diligence, PMI, carve out support, etc. want to move to corporate strategy (not dev)

I had a final round interview, and the recruiter reached out later to ask for references and asked if I was close to getting offers at any other places. Are they asking as that will affect the offer they will give? Or are they just asking to see how quickly they need to move? How would you answer that question if you’re interviewing with other places but haven’t gotten to the final rounds yet?

Hi Everyone, I am trying to apply for a Technical Support role at Dropbox. I’m entering all the required fields but there seems to be an issue, when I hit submit after filling the form, it doesn’t submit and throws error ‘Looks like you left this blank! Please fill out this required field’ when all the fields are entered already (I have checked so many times, and filled the form from scratch several times too). Anyone from Dropbox who can put me in touch with HR or suggest what I should do next?

Federal gov should consider training unemployed as testers, contact tracers, etc. We'll need these folks for at least another 12 months

What are the pros and cons of working for Progressive Insurance as a PIP examiner?

Hi Buddies ,

Any opening for Scrum Master/Agile Project manager roles

Please refer mine

Hardly looking for Job Change

Having PSM- 1,PSK - 1 certification and 8.6 YOE

Working Credit Risk Management Role across Portfolio 

Current Company : TCS

Regards
Rajesh

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How do you respond to a job rejection email? Any tips?

What is expected salary of compliance officer in credit suisse?

How much time generally it takes after HR round? After HR round i got mail for submitting documents(Academics and LTI specific Employment form etc) and interview process completion email. I have submitted everything. Please suggest

Would you consider buying in Tottenham Hale - 2 beds seem affordable and the commute to central is short. But I have heard it’s a bit of a sh** hole, any opinions?

Use three emojis to describe how your week is going so far…

Workflow or Semplice?
I'm redesigning my portfolio site. I'm presenting myself as a visual/web designer (emerging) and I need to level up from Squarespace. THX!

So something crazy happened to me last week. I was at the airport, and as usual on call after call. The check in line was going ridiculously slowly and at some point turned threw my hands up in frustration while looking around to find another place to check in. In doing so, I catch the eye of the behind me. He smiles and says something. I just sort of nod and carry on with my call. After that, he keeps trying to talk to me, eventually I got to the check, say bye and leave. At security… tbc

Has anyone else’s husband just never really given them complements? My husband refuses to because he says it would make it meaningless when he says them (so he doesn’t say I look nice in case on the ~5 times he says it a year it would be ‘watered down’). I really struggle with it sometimes, and it’s also hard because he expects little affirmations from me (which I happily do anyway because I want him to feel loved)

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

If someone ghosts you but you still have an article of their clothing, and they never asked for it back, should you just donate it?

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

My husband and I have had problems for years. He used to basically give me next to no affection, our sex life barely existed (incl. his absolute refusal to do foreplay … ever!) and his general dismissal of anything I enjoyed (my hobbies were boring to him). Over the last year I just gave up trying and accepted we may need to divorce. Now he is trying a lot- he puts in a lot of effort. While a few years ago this would have made me happy I feel like it’s too little too late, I just don’t care ..

How do you get over someone you never dated? I know this person is not right for me but I can’t get it off my head

hi - new to this bowl. I want to make sure I’m not being irrational or dramatic lol.

My boyfriend forgot my upcoming birthday. He scheduled a pick-up hockey game on that day and when I asked him about it, he said it was important to him to play hockey with his friends and we could celebrate my birthday a different day. for context, we’ve been dating for over a year and he knows how important celebrating is to me. im pretty close to ending it... thoughts?

Any female fish willing to give some advice?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

Started going out with one girl, we are both in the same position career wise. When we go out I tend to pay for everything. Girls before would always force 50/50 but not this one. Is this normal? If not, whats the best way to bring it up without making an argument?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

My GF has trouble standing up for herself. She's on client travel and one of her co-workers made her really upset (very uncalled for and should have never happened). She called me crying. After consoling her I told her that she needs to go to her manager and possibly HR (yes it's to that level).
She told me she can't and she's not that person (she thinks she'll get the other person fired). She knows that she should and hates that she doesn't stand up for herself. What can I do to help?

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but super happy with our relationship. I’m unsettled about the future and if we will be happy together in the future. I do not want to move to where he is located and he does not want to move here. He definitely wants kids, and I’m younger and more unsure. He’s a suburbs guy, and I want lavish city life.

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

How often do you see your significant other when you’re dating as an official couple?

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅

SO says I don’t acknowledge things for what they are and I try to find excuses. It’s been a big red flag for him and he sees it as immaturity and shadiness. I think he takes what I do the wrong way, and only try to explain my intent. I don’t know how to fix this