Going through a divorce and it is impacting my performance at work. How do I deal with this?

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Take a break... Like for 1-2 months and go our exploring.. vacation helps.

Or... Focussing on work also helps...

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Anyway ou are losing her, have utmost focus on your work and carry a smile no matter to not loose this Job.

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It's very much understandable that you're going through a rough patch right now. Does your manager know about this? I am sure your co-workers would understand your situation. Sending you virtual hugs (with consent) and comfort.

It's hard to separate your work from your personal life when your personal life also impacts the way you work. I think it would be best if you could take counselling for that. I'm worried if the feeling gets worse that you wont be able to work at all. But regardless, I hope you get better mentally and emotionally. It is okay to break down sometimes. You are valid. Hugs!

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Hello,

I'm new to data analytics domain can anyone here suggest where a fresher with 1 year experience can get a job in this domain as whenever I look at a job posting I see 4-5 years experience requirement.

Looking forward to your response.
~Abhishek

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Hi ladies! So I’m an Indian female and I’ll be FaceTiming a man my parents have found in the next couple weeks. My parents have been very understanding and are open to me dating someone I meet on my own as well. However, due to the pandemic it’s been hard to do that so I’ve agreed to meet this person. It will be my first time virtually meeting a “marriage prospect”, compared to a regular date. Do any of you have tips on what to assess during the first meeting? How to even approach the convo?

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Welcome to Salaries in Tech!

Use this bowl to discuss salary, comp, raises, and making moves across the industry.

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Guys which one is better career in terms of long term in IT industry. Working with Cloud solutions like azure,aws or AI ML?

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Hi Fishes,
I wanna learn core java + spring boot to become a Full stack developer. In frontend I'll be using Angular.
Can someone please guide me because I'm not able to find a course covering all the topics. They're missing some or the other topic.
It would be very helpful if someone can guide me and let me know how I can learn and be good at core java and spring boot.
Thankyou, please reply.

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Somedays I feel that I will learn everything, work harder than anyone else. I will keep growing.
Other days I feel like, bc boht ho gya... zindagi me araam chahiye ..
I am constantly stuck between the two.
P.S when the time demanded, I worked my ass off, even 16-18 hours a day for upskilling. It paid off.
But now I am always going back and forth with these thoughts.

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I want to learn microservices with containerization with Python. Can anyone point me towards good projects/ courses/ any learning materials?

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Just a quick question...
Which would be a better technology stack for my future?
1) .NET & Cloud
2) Data Science(Python in Jupyter Notebook or spyder)
3) Java & Springboot

Current years of experience: 1.5 years

Have offers:
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.NET Developer: 9 LPA
JAVA Developer: 8.5 LPA

Achievements: Have published 2 research papers related to Data Analytics.

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Thanks in advance!!

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I have completed my BCA in 2018 and currently working as Technician in Paytm I have completed Aws Devops Training and have knowledge and hands on experience in Got, Jenkins, Ansible, Docker, EC2, S3, IAM, VPC, Lambda.

please refer me and help me in getting job

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I have 10.5 years of experience in embedded domain and currently interviewing with Nvidia for a profile which I like the most. What is the pay Nvidia offers for 10+ YOE?

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I have total experience of 10.8 years and I am currently at lead band in Accenture. If i switch company offer me lead position only ...i have been serving lead position for 6 years now..how to convince the new company to hire me for above lead level band?

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Need some info on SSAI (Science System and Application Inc). Company based in Pune FC road. I got a call from them for role of Linux Admin. Need information about this company if available with anyone.

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Anyone from Bosch, who can refer me for C++ position there..

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