Got angry at the wife over some stuff. Planed to go to Starbucks to release some steam. On the way I remembered we need some milk then end up getting grocery and (cont.)

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I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Said goodbye to a 3 year old today. I don't know where to start

How to handle the dual employment in BGV? I have a friend who have a overlap of 30-40 days from his last organization which is not disclosed in CV and with current organization. I feel UAN check will spoil it but his overlap is cuz he wasn't able to return assets back during COVID. Any suggestions?

My girlfriend: *starts joking about something dumb she did* Me: *starts joking along and laughing about it with*. Her: “how could you do this to me?”

I ate one biscuit out of a big packet that belonged to my roommate and he said things like “it’s so tough to get these biscuits” etc. The thing is that I would have never said that to him. I’ve told him that as long as it’s in the kitchen, don’t ask me before eating. He also constantly keeps asking me to switch off the kitchen and bedroom lights. Is my being annoying justified?

How long do you cry after breakup? I cried for one night, and felt weird day after. Now I feel like I am way better, maybe it was because I know it had to happen (even if I was the one who got broken up with) and probably I see that more than hurt of relationship ending

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

Spouse is a state department employee and currently overseas. I’m a manager with three years of experience in consulting and 8 years of experience in the military where I left as a O-3 (GS-12 equivalent). SO wants me to take a non-negotiable family member hire role at the embassy overseas for one year so we can co-locate. Job sounds interesting, but is a non-negotiable GS-6 equivalent. Family life would be great but am I derailing my career permanently? Can I explain this in the future?

Hopefully this bowl thrives, I could use the perspective. Going through a divorce with two kids now.

Had a new child and my MIL is staying with us. I feel bad hating on her but I am so annoyed that she is here. She is nice but her English isn’t great, half the things she says don’t make sense, she and my wife speak in her native tongue, she is religious so I can’t eat meat and alcohol in the house. But she is nice to me and I know it could be worse but I am so annoyed.

Do you think using “him/her” for “he/she” (ex: “her is playing” “him not here yet”) is something that kids usually grow out of? Or does it need direct intervention? I have 2 students who exhibit this error, who otherwise should be dismissed. Normally I’d just keep them on and work on it alongside other goals, but they don’t have any other goals, and with COVID, and my upcoming maternity leave in March, a more compact caseload would be advantageous.

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

Hello friends,

My spouse is looking for a change in manual testing.She is looking for work from home (wfh)opportunities. Actually we have a 3.5yr old ,nursery class going kid. I sometimes feel very bad whenever he returns from school and misses his mumma lot.
After marriage and pregnancy, she already had a career gap. If again going to take a gap that might be a career problem.
The solution we are looking for WFH opportunity where she can manage her motherhood loves as well as professional lfy

How do you get over the fact that your
bf (who is super active on social media
and USED to post you without you
asking) just never does it anymore?
You don't suspect him of cheating or
anything like that, he just doesn't think
to do it anymore. I don't want our
fights to be around social media, and
honestly am embarrassed even typing
out this post, but it’s been on my mind lately.

How soon after marriage do guys start demanding kids? Asking for a friend

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

I’m feeling so depressed. My project is remote and I hate it but no way out. Looking for a new job. I just moved out on my own after living with parents, but now I cry all the time even though (contd)

Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’m a great mom but at the end of the day having them on my own is exhausting and I end up just either letting them do whatever they want Bc I don’t feel strong enough to set a limit about it, or yelling at them. They’re 4 and 7 for reference. Please constructive responses only. Thank you!

Stupid question - but I’m interviewing for a job and have no public company audit experience - when a job is looking for someone with SOX experience, what are they referring to?

need advice.

I have been working in an interim role as a portfolio manager. I was promised that the role would be mine. However, after doing the job for 2 months, I have been advised that we might not get the funding for the role and I might not get the raise and the title but my responsibilities will be the same.

Its a political minefield.

How should I back out elegantly that I need to be compensated fairly and competitively from this mess without burning any bridges

Hi Fish
I want to carryout a little experiment and ask you to describe first yourself and background/upbringing a little and then the kind of self talk you have.
Use specific phrases you tell yourself if applicable.
Curious to see the correlations in backgrounds and positive/negative self talk and also hear how other people talk to themselves.
Also would love to hear any tips on improving your self talkthat have been a success for you.
Continued...

Alright, the Baddy Awards is official. Submit or nominate the worst ad you’ve seen or made all year to our twitter @TheBaddyAwards. If it takes off, at the end of the year I’ll send out real trophies😈

Requester: let me know your availability for a meeting
Me: 10-11am
Req: how about 12:30pm or 5pm?
Me: no

(Meeting ended up at 10:30-10:45am)

Hi, can someone from TCS confirm if they got approval from HR to work from home after submitting medical certificate?

All our boy friends in common keep telling me that he has a crush on me but yesterday when we were hanging out with some friends and they asked him about his crush he said " I don't know I think maybe I liked a boy instead of a girl". That made me confused is there something wrong I'm doing? Does he think I'm boyish or is that a common teasing technique ?

Did sign on bonuses disappear? I never see them anymore when I'm job searching.

Salam everyone, wanted to ask if anyone here is in a relationship with someone close to their age and how they’re navigating it for ex a guy being 22 and the girl being 24. I’ve been advised to find someone 3-4 yrs younger than me because that would make things smoother and there would be less fighting. What are your thoughts? Also I’m Arab and will most likely be marrying an Arab girl if that changes anything.

What can be highest package for oracle apps technical consultant of 7 years of experience

Need help getting boutique stores to join my platform. Low success with answers on instagram- I don’t believe it’s a product issue, it’s the decision maker isn’t the instagram owner. Any suggestions besides cold calling? Will have another thread on that.

I have 2 interviews for 2 different roles at the same company, in anyones experience if you don’t get 1 role bc they passed, are you disqualified for the other?

How on earth are folks still quitting - quitting I tell ya! - and moving to tech sector in this market where layoffs are every day news? Are other consulting folks experiencing the same? Within my practice, we have lost half a dozen over the last month. What am i missing? Is the talk about recession over blown? Is the job market hot as opposed to red lava white hot?

I Recently told company A verbally I will accept their offer if they match a job offer I have from Company B and they did. When I informed Company B that I will not be accepting their offer they gave me a sweet counteroffer that i’m seriously considering, What should I say to Company A?

What sales jobs make 500K to +1 million a year?

Process flow diagrams... 😁🍷🍷🍷

I have 7k in a Roth account invested in a 2060 vanguard fund. I have another 14k in cash in my checking account. Is it a bad time to invest that in a S&P fund? I know I’m know supposed to hold cash...

Has anyone left big 4 with nothing lined up because it was best for your mental health? Senior 1 not sure why it says I’m a staff.

Anybody have tips on modulating tone when stressed? I got an overall positive annual review, but an area of improvement was when I'm stressed, I can come across as irritated or short. Any tips?

So tell me.. year end evaluations are coming, how many direct hours do you have? I am sitting on 2010 direct hours ytd

25 year old CPA, with only 12k saving, and quitting accounting FOR GOOD

There is no going back

Either I succeed or I succeed

Fk it

Transferring my cpa license to Texas and received an email saying that I need to pass Texas board’s rules of conduct test. How many chances do I get if I fail this exam?

I found out that I'll be senior July 1st. When do we get an email to sign up for Discover? I've heard September is the best time to go, but fills up quick... so want to be ahead of my game.

Any layoffs in tax tech ?

How do you stay motivated to study after getting home when you work so much? Finding myself hitting a plateau lately

Do you think it is harder for a doctor or an accountant to get fired?