Got broken up with by my bf of 1 yr. He said he felt like something was missing from our relationship but couldn’t (or wouldn’t) say what. I know I should just focus on moving on but I can’t help but fixate on this. We had similar goals, values, lifestyles and were pretty compatible. We got along great and the physical chemistry was still there. So what could be missing????

What are your thoughts on the everlasting friends debate - cheating or were they on a break?

How do you guys manage relationships when working long hours and also on weekends?

SO says I don’t acknowledge things for what they are and I try to find excuses. It’s been a big red flag for him and he sees it as immaturity and shadiness. I think he takes what I do the wrong way, and only try to explain my intent. I don’t know how to fix this

Boston or Portland if you had to choose. Have a kindergarten kid too

Not sure if this is an ADHD symptom or a form of avoidance that’s specific to me but since I’ve started working, I feel physically incapable of keeping up with my friendships and relationships, like the bandwidth is completely gone. I never felt this way in law school/ever before but now I’m going ages without responding to texts and I’m starting to really see some strong friendships fall to the wayside. The thing is if I had anything to give, I would!

I ended my relationship of 6 years about 3 months ago bc he said he might regret not having kids later down the line. we were always on the fence but I’m leaning towards no. It hurts so much having to walk away from an otherwise perfect relationship. Wish this was easier…

Does anyone in NYC have a chef who comes to their house to cook for the week? We want healthy food but are limited in time due to two demanding jobs and a toddler.

Two of our students were killed today in a shooting, another two are in the hospital. Last week a student was killed in a different shooting. Admin barely acknowledged. How do we help our kids?

For M, when you date are you now trying to date younger so that you don’t need to try for kids right away or is there some urgency for you to want children fairly soon as well?

I know this bowl isn’t the most active, but my grandmother is in the hospital for Covid (severely high risk), grandfather has it, as does my mom and 8 year old brother. My mom is also experiencing PTSD or some form of mental issue where she has certain triggering events. Everyone is concerned about her and my grandmother. Please keep my family in your prayers

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

Bay Area: what are some day/weekend road trips we can make these days? Just want a little bit of a break with my husband. But not sure what’s open and don’t wanna drive somewhere just to sit in a room

Anyone has a love story in PA? Or everyone is just single here...

How is everybody doing with the lockdown? Dealing with the stress of an ongoing divorce and loneliness is driving me nuts

My husband told me today that he cant handle another busy season - i.e me working all the time and he taking care of our two year old girl after his work. Cant say I blame him - but I feel drained

Ladies, please help me out here. My gf didn’t post any stories from a week long road trip we just did. Next weekend she went on a trip with her friends and keeps posting pics from there. I generally don’t care about these things but it’s just such an obvious difference. Why? Does it mean anything?

Any tips on helping my remote bond/feel more connected with each other?

Does anyone here live in Utah? Davis or Salt Lake County specifically?

I love the outdoors and am thinking about settling down there with my partner, but was wondering what it would be like for us?

Hey guys
What's a good way to get into India vc space. Don't want to do direct investments but rather like a fund

What’s the average salary for delivery leads/director program management in SR_ NewYork?

I’m interviewing for a CRM Marketing Manager position for a Private Equity company. I have 7 years of experience. I already gave a desired salary range, but the interview process has been long and is giving me time to do more research. However, I’m struggling to find salaries online as niche as for a Private Equity company.

Hello! How would you answer the "what would you bring to our company's culture?

Anyone else avoid alcohol at all costs during the middle of week?

Help! I’m Indian American and parents have taken over my wedding. How to establish boundaries with South Asian parents? Yes they are helping me pay for it, but the only reason I need the help is that their guest count is close to 220 people for their friends. Also parents and in-laws are at odds with what traditions should be done and I’m trying to make them all compromise.

Confirmed 1st BFP after almost 1yr TTC. Scheduled the prenatal visit for Sept. Anything I should do (or not do) in the early weeks / Anything that might be surprising but is normal? TIA!

Hey Peeps,

I'm here in Georgia and really want to work at Google. I'm an educator looking to pivot into a non-technical role.

I see all these flashy TikTok videos where people with no experience got Project Manager positions and make six figures just to eat, shop, and have 2 meetings a day. I know there has to be way more to such an interesting position. Can any of you give me any insight into what a PM's day-to-day is like a Google?

What should an S2 in a HCOL area expect to make in FDD (big 4)?

Better to buy a modem/router or get through provider? Probably getting Verizon internet only

My fundamental knowledge of Corporate Finance sucks (reading statements, calculations, etc) How do I get better? And then eventually learn to model too?

What can I expect for working hours at BB as an associate in levfin or IB?

How’s everyone’s cycle design looking? Trying to start blasting and cruising but I don’t know where to start.

So I’m 7 weeks 3 days and I haven’t been sick at all. I know I should count myself lucky and not worry at all because it’s normal but I can’t help myself but worry because I feel…normal? I got a handheld ultrasound at week 5 and the doctor saw the gestational sac but nothing else (which apparently is normal at 5 weeks) I have my first real ultrasound in 3 days and I’m so so so nervous. Any reassurance? Anyone else feeling this strange mixed emotions of grateful for feeling fine but also worried

Do any of the MBB firms have Salesforce practices/groups?

Hi,
My name is Abhijit Srivastav and presently I am working in Accenture in a contract basis employee as a transaction process associate.

I have one question it will be appreciated for your valuable comment.

After my completion of contract of 1 year does Accenture gets me as a permanent employee???

Thanks & regards
Abhijit Srivastav

Hi Fishes,

I received an offer from pwc for 39 L ( fixed - no variable pay is mentioned )

Can you please let me know how much of variable pay can I expect to get?

Is that connected to performance rating only ?

Given the same CTC should one join at C4 level or C5 level in TCS?
C5 Variable is annual and high expectations
C4 variable is qtrly and less headache then C5

When a consolidated unitary group acquires a TX Corp, does TX follow Sec. 382 and Sec. 383 and apply a limitation on the utilization of the acquired entity's TX R&D credits following the acquisition?

Why do women get judged for their clothes?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

F here. I’ve had trouble in relationships because idk how to fight healthily. I’ve been going to therapy for it but I’m struggling atm because my boyfriend who I love so much, I’ve brought to his breaking point with my anxiety fueled approach. I don’t blame him. A lot of this stems from watching my parents & their toxic fights. I want to change not only for myself but for him, because I believe he is worth changing for. But has anyone ever gone through this & made it out better?

Got ghosted by a guy I was talking to for 4 months who also told me he loved me. Completely confused and totally discouraged from dating now, can’t trust anyone smh.

How do you get over someone you never dated? I know this person is not right for me but I can’t get it off my head

M, 44. After 21 years of marriage, my wife and I signed divorce papers with no contest. We have two adult daughters together, 18 and 21 So no child support, no alimony, and I make $170k at 44. I recently moved out of the marital house into an apartment,m. What should my next steps look like at this point? Do I need counseling?

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

I keep having sex with my ex and want to get back together (this is a recent thought & he doesn’t know) but we live on opposite coasts now. We broke up in 2016 yet we manage to hook up pretty much every other time we see each other. It always starts w an innocent hangout but he still does boyfriend duties and we end up hooking up. It feels good but also wrong at the same time. Is this normal? Am I too old for this F/30? I don’t do this with any of my other exes. Not even attracted to them anymo.

3 weeks after me and the girl I was seeing ended things, she posts a pic from the wedding she had invited me to, with a new guy captioned “Babe”. Trust your gut folks, it’s always right.

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

F, 32 years old here: Why is it that guys are so boring with their responses when chatting on dating apps? Are most guys just boring? Or are they just not interested (then why like my picture or match with me??)? I always feel like I’m the only one making jokes/trying to liven up the conversation.

Is it messed up to want my gf to move in with me for financial reasons? We have been together for 6 months and about 4 months in I knew I wanted her to move in. But then things got really rocky. After that happened I realized I now would have to wait for us to build some foundation before asking her to move in. I am now thinking about it and her moving in would be the easiest move ever for her. It would also save her about $1k/month. She is looking at places near my place also. (cont.)

Just found out my SO messed around with someone that works in the same company as me but different city and she knew he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

Has anyone had (virtual) crushes on coworkers whom they’ve never met in person?

Saw that this guy I’ve been seeing for a couple months was texting this girl about going on a walk... looked her up (obviously) and most of her pics on Instagram are (cont.)

What’s a reasonable Christmas gift to a girl who I’ve only dated less than a year?

Anyone have a spouse/partner who is a picky eater?

I grew up with two french bodybuilders for parents and enjoy super minimally seasoned, whole, unprocessed foods (yes, we were the weird house for not having goldfish as kids), and I live with my handsome man from a beautiful Mexican family who cook with many flavors but also eat out a LOT.

He is okay about my cooking as it is 90% veggies, but some nights he’s blunt that he’s picky, and I whine about going out. Thoughts?