Got into a huge fight with my bf (of 1 yr) after I saw the Grindr login page on his phone. He explained that he was only looking for friends and blames me for not giving him enough attention / because I’m moving at the end of the year for a new role. He then changed the story to our sex life isn’t fulfilling so he’s getting off to other guys. For context, he passed something onto me and I need to have a minor procedure done and I haven’t been as sexually active. Should I just end?

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OP, even if you're boyfriend isn't cheating on you physically, he's cheating on you emotionally by talking to other guys and presumably swapping pics. It sounds like you guys would benefit from some honest and open conversations about the future of your relationship and what you both need to be happy and fulfilled.

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Sounds like he likes to gaslight. This is a good opportunity for you to assess whether or not you want to be in that relationship. You deserve to be chosen, and it seems he has been choosing and prioritizing something or someone else instead of you. I don’t think anyone can tell you if you should end because we don’t know all the deets. But based on my experiences going through similar sish, I ended up feeling worse when it ended because I was willing to overlook these red flags for someone who clearly didn’t deserve it.

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Yes you should dump this lying cheater.

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Cut your losses and move on. You deserve better ❤️

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Wanted to try LDR but I’m not so sure anymore 😪

Passed something on the me……?

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