Got matched with a cute guy on CMB.. should I send a message first? New to online dating.

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Why not?

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If you want to, do it! Any guy who looks down on a woman for showing her interest first is probably worth a pass anyway 😎

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My friends who met on CMB just got engaged!

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DO IT! I messaged the guy first and now we are planning to buy our first property!

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Wow congrats!!! Why don’t guys message first when they like the girls profile first.

Met my husband on CMB almost five years ago!

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