Grass is Greener on The Other Side Syndrome - Advice Needed
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I have about 1.5 YOE in industry and looking to move to PA. Should I apply for entry level associate or experienced associate position (I am interested in audit and consulting)? Thanks.
Wow just found out how much software engineers make at Google and I feel like I am not putting my cs degree to good use. Anyone else feel like they made the wrong career decision out of undergrad?
Thoughts on tipping hotel lounge staff? I’ve been staying in a Marriott for 2+ months. If I do tip, how much? I never really thought about it until my co worker mentioned she tips weekly.
My manager; Hey let me know if you have too much on your plate and I’ll see if we can offload some to other members of the team.
Me; you actually don’t want me to let you know, you want me to figure it out lol 😂😂😂😂😂
Why do they ask this for no reason cos they’re not expecting you to reach out lol
Will be 2,500 PQM short of 1k. Anyone got a lead on a cheap ~700 mile biz flight from ORD?
Thinking about getting the Chase Sapphire Reserve, any cons I should know about? Is there another card you’d recommend?
I am new to this platform and seeking a information on salary for a solution delivery manager in consulting company. It's USA based company also works in India. Opening is required with 12+ yoe. What could be the best package or range for it.
MBB folks, how often do you work <50 hour weeks? I can’t imagine being below 50 on a typical case in my office, regardless of how “smart” you work. Curious to hear your experience.
Any recommendations on resources for a litigator lateraling into a real estate associate role? Books, guides, newsletters, etc. would all be helpful.
Hi everyone! I’m new to Visa and currently trying to learn more about the different parts at the company. I’d love to learn more about the current projects/initiatives in VCA and Strategy. Let me buy you a coffee!
How do you label bottles for daycare? I was going to just write his name with permanent marker, but then the daycare person told me most people have silicone labels. Thank you in advance!
Year to Date I made $60k including overtime. How much should I expect to get with my promotion to Project Manager? Base salary + 10%? I have 3 years experience in the industry in NY, NY
Just got a Christmas greeting from a corporate partner in pls fix format: Mry xmas. Hope he gets to spend the time he saved writing that with his family.
This may be a weird question but how long do you typically need to be at a job to get maternity leave? I am hoping to have my CPA next March and look for a new job afterward. I am also getting married next year and will be 31. Worried that I am running out of time to have kids but am not that far along in my career ( I didn’t get my degree until I was 28) any advice?
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Moving in together?
I am 28m and my GF is a couple years younger. Her lease is up around the time of our 2yr anniversary (in a few months) she wants to move in with me when her lease ends, but I am not ready. Does me not being ready mean anything? Or do y’all feel like it is okay to wait longer to move in together??
How to handle your emotions in a less sex ( not no sex), and low quality sex marriage?
It's emotionally depressing for me when we don't make out, getting ugly thoughts of breaking up.
Although I also do understand this should not be the ground for destroying the family, but the lack of it creates a vacuum in me.
Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here
I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?
when my gf posts a story and then responds to my text 30 minutes later....makes me turn into Patrick Bateman
My friend proposed to me over call, after letting his mom know , we were in college together he is 2 years senior. We were just hi hello type in college, but after changing countries we are speaking almost each day as friends . I am not sure what to do as it has been years since we have met F2F.He said he will give me time to think though.
I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?
Folks that got a prenup. How and where did you get it? We have spoken to a couple of lawyers and it simply seems to be a back and forth they want to do to rack up billable hours/complicate the issue. My SO and I pretty much know what we want. We are doing it mainly to protect my SOs inheritance. Looking for the simplest way to execute this. TIA for any advice.
My SO had a career change, went back to school, and just started with his new job. He is struggling a bit and is very stressed out. What can I do to help?
At what age did you meet your spouse? How many ‘tries’ did you face with people you believed were ‘the one’? Hoping to help those who feel lost feel more optimistic!
How does a marriage survive when one partner hates the parents of the other partner to the point they wished the parents dead? Is it even possible for the marriage to survive such one sided hate?
Does anyone here have a relationship where they’re allowed to explore their sexuality outside the relationship? When we first started dating I told my partner I was bicurious and they’re 100% fine with me exploring it without them involved.
What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?
How would you react?
My brother has been with his SO for a few years. two years ago He went to business school and made friends, who became her friends too as he made sure to integrate her. A year ago he learned from a classmate that one of the friends who hangs a lot with SO (sometimes 1 o1) told a group of people he is attracted to my bro SO and would "bang" her.
My brother then told his SO to stop hanging alone with that guy... her answer was: there is nothing between them. CTD
Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?
Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.
I feel stuck in a hopeless relationship. I don’t trust them anymore (infidelity issues). I need courage to leave.
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