Guy I met for 3rd date today (just did outdoor activities so far), asked me for coffee date for the next day. Rather seeing it as a bad sign, to "break up" things. What do you think?

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Why would it be a bad sign? It sounds like he asked you out again.

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After only 3 dates, I doubt he'd meet you in person to break up.

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We live in the same small town, so dating is not as anonymous as in the city

Nothing indicates from that he’d want to break up, but not sure if you’re leaving out other important info. How did the dates go?

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Pretty good as per my feelings, but hard to tell from his side

From all my experiences, most men wont even take two seconds to end things with you via text let alone set up a coffee to end things after meeting 2 times.

Don't overthink it.

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I don’t think he would have asked you on another date if it wasn’t going well.

Do you want to bring things off?

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Are you saying he still didn’t invite you for dinner and is just trying to get away with coffee, walks in the park, etc?

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That's dating, you weirdos

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We’re still in a pandemic so also not sure if he’s focused on being safe

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I agree. Don’t overthink it. It’s just another date over coffee. I hope you have a great time!

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Can I ask what city?
I do feel that small city or not, an in person breakup isn't necessary after 3 dates!

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Somewhere in Europe.

Let us know what happens!

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What does he do for work?

Ok really seems I have been too paranoid- thanks to all that dating on the apps. Wish me luck it stays that way ;)

Yessss :))

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