Guy I was talking to suddenly isn’t in the “dating headspace”. Why are people like this 😩 why is dating so hard.

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I’m going back and forth like hourly if I want to date. It has nothing to do with anyone else. It’s just how I am feeling with all of the pandemic malaise. Im on apps but once my hinge subscription is done I am giving a rest and hopefully meeting people in real life.

I’m sorry you’re feeling down. Dating is super hard.

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