Guys > 32, why do you think you're single?

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Being short probably hasn’t helped. 🤷‍♂️

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Being short just means you need to work harder where everything else is concerned. Have a kickass personality, great body, be interesting, dress well etc.. more importantly height isn’t something you can change, accept & own it.

I’m very short, but a lot of the women I’ve dated long term & casually are around the 5’10 - 6’1 mark.

Simple answer, time and energy.

I got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship with someone who progressively became a pretty terrible person, I wasted a lot of time trying to fix this.

Then spent a year or so looking out for my family and mum while cleaning things up, winding up businesses, selling houses etc after my dad’s aneurism.

This last year I’ve been focusing on me, dating again, looking for a woman I click with in a meaningful way to make it a long term thing. I’ll get there :)

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Yeah it’s about the first thing that felt like normality after 3 months of Isolation & lock downs. It’s a little sad to see how many little businesses died off during the period though.

Can’t go wrong with something simple, I’ve been sticking to Old Fashion’s & Red Wine lately.

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I talk too much, narcissistic, self centered, argue everything, over think, lazy, and no real talents.

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I have one...

I'm honest.

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Labeled as a the “divorced guy”... have only seen or found understanding from other women my age also divorced (35)

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Same boat. Divorced m..it’s not bad, but it’s not great. I find the ladies I wanna be with want to stay away from the ‘divorced’ label 😔

Was not planning to be. But here I am divorced so

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This is easy, I’m awful at perceiving other people’s emotions and not particularly emotional myself.

That’s a tough one. I am exactly 32 - I keep telling myself that I have more things to work on myself. Also COVID didn’t help either.

Baggage 🧳

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M44... never wanted to commit. Had a few long term relationships in my 20s and 30s, but never felt like they were the ones.

My nickname is "three inches of pain", enough said....

Just kidding, I work too much and everybody I date realizes that after 3 months.

That being said, the pandemic's actually made spending time with somebody a lot easier, so things are looking up.

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