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Lol! @OP think about what Tweety calls Sylvester and you should have your answer. 😂
Still amazes me that guys send messages like this.
Schedule a meet-up and send your brother or male friend instead to slap him around a bit
Was halfway joking, agreed that he’s not worth your time, and hopefully karma catches him sooner than later.
That said, my older brother has madr some guys sorry they even looked in our sis’ direction, on multiple occasions 😂.
ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLL 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭.... D1, you an MVP forreal. I appreciate you expanding my colloquial hahaha 🙌🏾 maybe you should include an entry on urbandictionary. Help out these poor souls
But also it shouldn’t be plural... 😂😂
Same. I’m so over guys. 🙄
Lol don’t really have either - altho surprisingly, I feel like most men wouldn’t ever do that for women they know. Men tend to uphold each other’s privileges. Whatever, I don’t need anyone to do that for me nor do I care enough to do it. People like that have it coming for them, and I trust God got my back.
Honestly as he should!
Wow! I’m amazed at the stuff some guys say. Guy here, in the process of getting ghosted. I can sense it coming, all this even after being nice and considerate. Seriously, I’m tired.
Also I’m annoyed that I don’t even know what cats are... and urban dictionary wasn’t giving anything useful 😂😭
Is this a "Muslim” guy?
Yeah this is minder. And he identifies as “practicing"
C1, someone you’ve been talking to for a while or only a couple days? And why do you say so? I’d also add that you should’ve been kind and considerate bc that’s the kind of person you are, not because you want a girl to like you :) for me, I have to always remind myself of my values and the kind of person I am to make sure I’m staying true to that. For ex- I might want to sweep something under the rug when I talk to someone, but I remind myself that this is not the kind of person I am and I should be my true self now rather than get far along with someone being a polished version of myself. Ya know
Yoo guy here. This dude is obviously disturbed at some level and needs counseling but what's up with girls as well. Girls be like I need a mature guy and I popped in told her I got my shit together and then bih ghosted TF outta me. Lol all in all I've literally stopped looking for a girl for now.
He’s not disturbed. He just wants to get laid, but obviously Minder is not the place for it... get on freakin tinder. Serious question - has any girl you’ve matched every said shit like the above?
As for the ghosting, that’s normal across the board. Ghosting or no convos happens with 80-95% of matches. I think the first couple messages will really decide if someone keeps talking to you in addition to that person being convinced about your profile/background (so make sure you put good detail on there!).
There’s also a difference between saying you have your shit together and showing her that you have your shit together. I prefer to make that conclusion myself from what I hear about/ask the guy. If you’re vibing with someone, feel it out but within the first couple convos and def the first 2-3 days, you should move from the app to texting and then plan for an in-person meet-up if they’re in town or a FaceTime call to really get that personal feel to see if you’d even want to continue. Nothing really gets serious if you don’t do that because before that you’re really just texting buddies. I’d do this within 1-2 week timeframe of talking