Guys, need advice

Getting married in few months. Planning to buy a gated flat based on home loan. My CTC is 30 and my wife’s 13 LPA. What is the home loan we should go for? In case we go for high end apartments, what is the avg sal in those apartments, as even after emi, you should be able to afford the life style living these flats. Also, parents are willing to contribute in down payment to redce the EMI, is it a good idea taking help from parents as I will loose my respect in front of wife.

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Based on your problem statement mentioned, suggestion on decision of source of money for down payment and EMI is your internal family matter, so that decision you will have to make.

Whatever little financial planning knowledge I have, I would suggest to take a property within 2x amount of your total income.

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Loan of max 60L.Even not bad to stay in rent.
If you have very long term plan in the same location then you can go for it.
Buying flat is never a good financial decesion as return on investment is very low.

Jeez. If you are thinking of losing self respect in front of parents, ask them to contribute as a downpayment but only as an interest free loan. Return them the money just like the EMI you are giving to the bank.

I don’t understand what respect you’ll lose if you get money from parents.
I’ve seen a lot of this bs on this platform. Staying with parent, getting monetary help for parents have all become disrespectful in the eyes of these ‘pro-western’ idiots.
Are you going to pay back the money they spent on you until now? If not, there’s no ill in getting money from parents.
I earn the same money in a year what my parents earned for almost their entire life. Still, my parents paid for the down payment for the house I bought.

When I told them it’s not required, my dad told me that they worked so hard so long to provide for the children. If I refuse, then there’s all their work would
not have any meaning.

If you think you’ll lose respect with your wife if you get money from your parents, then your parents would become outsiders in your life.

50L for 25 years with 35K emi pm. 40LPA fixed + others. 11 YoE

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