Had 2 friends announce pregnancy recently, due in Sep and Nov. I can't stop thinking of my baby that I miscarried. I would've been due Oct. 😔 I could've been celebrating with them...

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Sorry for your loss OP. But you will be able to celebrate in the near future. Hang in there ❤️

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So sorry for your loss ❤️

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So sorry OP. This struck a cord. I got pregnant within weeks of my best friend last fall (we were both doing IVF). I miscarried. She just had her baby last week. I’m so happy for her but the “what could have been” thoughts won’t stop. It’s so hard OP. I keep telling myself it’ll get better with time and before we know it we’ll be celebrating too. Best of luck to you.

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I’m so sorry OP. Sending love your way. I had a miscarriage in 2012 that I still catch myself thinking about from time to time. It’s really tough.

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