Had a breakup 2 years back but still facing issues in trusting people. Anyone in the same boat?

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Don’t known when was the break but single since 3-4 years probably but still can’t trust people was in a long term relationship usne breakup krlia bechari batana bhul gae

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Same

Maybe you still talk to the person, fantasize about being with them, dream old memories.

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The source of hurt has to be somewhere right? Why is it still in your thoughts? What triggers it?

Not everyone is same, I'm sure there's someone out there perfect for you! It's just that when we start caring about someone, we need to trust the other person. Not because we are sure they'll not break the trust but because we know we'll handle even if they don't. This mindset does help reduce jealousy factors, trivial fights and if this keeps working, we hit a jackpot and if it doesn't, well then we come out stronger! I hope you find your jackpot soon.

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You guys getting are having breakup..... Jokes Apart, stay strong OP. Try to move on.... Tinder he chala le 😅 kuch din

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Boys are not favourites on dating apps.We get 3-4 likes in 4-5 months.But for girls it happens like magic. You log in and see so many likes😂🤣.
Harsh truth about dating apps🤣

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OP, what you feel is absolutely natural and quite normal.
I once fell from the 2nd floor of a building (10 years ago), and am still afraid of heights.

Your trust issue is nothing but your subconscious mind keeping you safe from being hurt again, which is completely normal and correct.

From my experience, the other person need to understand your situation and take it easy on you. There's nothing that you can do about this, you can't just stop having trust issues just like that when your trust has been broken in the past.

And there's no need to compare yourself with others who probably did not have trust issues even after their trust was broken. Remember, every individual is different and all of us react differently to situations.

OP, take it easy, there's nothing wrong with you. You are just trying to be safe.
Hope this helps!:)

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Nope. Failure in one relationship doesn't mean that you stop trying. Not everyone is a scum.
I had a break up, learnt from the experiences, moved on, found someone and have been together for 5 years now.

You don't stop trusting; you learn from the experience and become more vigilant in finding the one.

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Sorry for your experience OP :( I don't have any experience with relationships, but can offer a kind ear if you need it. Feel free to DM :)

+1, feel free to DM to speak. May be, we can help each other

yup, it’s been more than 2 yrs infact. I guess you just gotta believe that people are inherently good.

Can’t live your life trusting no one right? Just add things to your life so that you are content in yourself, anyone else comes in your life then cool. You get played again, too bad we move.

Emotions ko side me rakh do , bahot dukh dete hain ye mc

Yes in the same boat. After 5.5 years of relationship its difficult to trust anyone.

Didn't want to trust so never been in a relationship 😂

DM me if you want to discuss on the same topic

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