Had a recent nightmare that has been haunting me. Dreamt I was passed out drunk and one of my husbands best friends took advantage of me sexually and I could not call out for help. I still can’t understand what it means and it’s very disturbing. Haven’t had the courage to share with him.

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Why do you have to put meaning to it? Some dreams are nonsensical, leave it at that.

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What’s your relationship with your friends husband? Are you often around them getting drunk? Are they crazy when they are drunk? Does he make advances or show interest in you? Have to look at it in the whole context to assess the risk and that’s how your brain will make sense of it.

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Thank you for the validation. Want to work on what my subconscious is telling me but without dragging him into it. Wouldn’t be fair to him or his friend.

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You sound like my ex who would blame for cheating on her … in her dreams.

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NEVER. That’s ridiculous. I’m more trying to identify what my subconscious is trying to tell me so I can work it out.

Dreams usually aren’t literal… maybe it means you’ve been feeling helpless or silenced in some way?

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That could be. I had a situation at work that Jade me feel helpless and has been bothering me.

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It’s probably more useful to think about what does the husband’s friend represent to you. Dreams can just be nonsense overnight processing of mental residue. Some things you dream about will be meaningful to you but only you can decode what the images represent.

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I dunno, of i had a dream like that I'd never be able to look at the guy the same. Talking to your hubby about it would probably be good if you can though

Perhaps see a dream interpreter. A session with them to break down this dream could be helpful

Also if u have a therapist, def share this dream with them! They might have some insight

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Maybe you're remembering...

I hope you're right.

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