Hello fishes !
About to be offered a position at Deloitte London as SC. Exp : ~9.
Visa sponsorship is needed. I foresee a possible negotiation on compensation from Deloitte.
Not sure of the estimate yet but I understand it would be 55-60k as per other fishes . Should I settle for a lower comp while employer pays one time sponsorship & migration costs or bear the migration costs self and chase a good salary . Which is better ?
Note : moving to UK with spouse and kid
Found out I’m 7-8 weeks pregnant. I’m on a high visibility project and my role is critical. I work with very senior execs and my due date is 2 months before go live. Should I make the project leadership aware and be transparent so that they can start planning and/or look for a backfill? (I just started the project a month back)
Need your opinions. Wife is currently 14 weeks pregnant and I’m expecting a job offer in the next week or so. Do I sign and accept an offer and then tell them about needing to take paternity leave once I begin or do I discuss this before I accept? Not wanting to start off on the wrong foot but don’t want to risk any potential offer
I love my kid so much. He was with me throughout all of elementary but has been at the middle school for the past 3 years. He had only a handful of kids he knew from our elementary. He made all of his new friends on his own. I have been meeting them one by one and am sooooo impressed with their character, manners, interests, and grades. He chose his friends wisely! Anyone else experience this?
Anybody else incredibly grateful to be able to WFH while pregnant. Don’t know how other women can do it tbh
Considering a move to Florida to follow my mother who moved south almost 2 years ago. Anyone able to do a referral for Disney or somewhere else? Looking for higher level management positions 10 YOE . The Walt Disney Company
Did anyone start taking prenatal vitamins before getting pregnant? We're just starting to try and I was wondering if it would be good to get started. Does anyone have favorite? Anything else I should to better prepare?
My father apptly invited my cousin to thanksgiving. The cousin who took my baby name bc she “wasn’t sure it would get used given ‘my situation” and “wanted to make sure it got used since it’s such a beautiful name.” So I guess I’m having dinner across from a 7 month old baby with my dream baby’s name. Super weird to resent an infant on thanksgiving, but that’s where we are..
Hypothetically, if a parent was sick with COVID in a different city would you take a 4 hour flight to them? The parent lives with spouse, kid, and kid’s spouse. Would it make a difference in your decision making if they were hospitalized or not?
Can anyone refer me to Citrin Cooperman TAS Senior NYC? 3 years Audit w/ Sr exp mid size niche private companies of international publicly listed parent Company, 2 Years Fed Tax Big 4, 1.5 Years Internal Audit healthcare, 1.5 years currently Self Employed Investing.
Advice please! 9 weeks & haven’t told my team. When did you tell them? Is it unreasonable to ask for more frequent remote weeks? How to find out more abt maternity leave & logistics? Thank you!!
Moms of fishbowl - what is the best bottle warmer and sterilizer? I’m due in February, planning to do a combination of breast milk and formula (to ensure baby gets all his nutrients one way or another). We bought the baby brezza advanced with WiFi for formula, so more focused on a warmer + sterilizer combo thatll work for breast milk (and specifically thawing breast milk too). Seems there aren’t as many options for combo products with sanitizer, so maybe I’m asking for too much. Suggestions?
Pregnant with my first baby and I’m having the WORST sciatic nerve pain. I had a back injury with nerve damage when I was in my early 20s and at 18 weeks pregnant, it’s almost unbearable. I’ve increased my prenatal workouts like yoga, Pilates and walking because my doctor said that helps but it’s not helping. Any advice from the momma fishes? 🙏🏻
Have $6k expense coming up and considering a new card for SUB. Already have Sapphire reserve and not quite 4yrs out to downgrade and move to preferred, so sapphire preferred's current bonus is out.
Already have about 500k UR points (was intending to spend them on a honeymoon then turned around and got pregnant right after the wedding so honeymoon didn't happen). Would love to accumulate more points for late honeymoon once kid is old enough to leave with my parents.
Suggestions (or referrals).
I got married to a white American girl we have a kid now. My family is visiting from India and she is not ok with them staying for prolonged periods 3 weeks at a time in this case....contd
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Are cover letters these days needed or even looked at for any non-creative advertising/marketing roles like client-side, media buying/strategy/planning, consulting etc?
Any advertising and media sellers out there at music focused platforms or publishers that take cannabis budgets?
Booked a 5 nights getaway with wife to Cancun at the end of this month, but with the new variant virus, not sure if it is an good idea to cancel it?
Has anyone bought a property to be a vacation rental income and NOT been successful? If so, what went wrong?
I am having offer for Jio and bit skeptical about work life balance and quality of work in Jio.
Please help who has worked in Jio.
6/15 Thread (General):
Paternity leave as per Accenture policy?
I have been at my job for almost 8 years and don’t feel I’m getting paid enough! What can I do to get more money.
Are there any recruiters from IBM who have information on their apprenticeship program (Soft Eng)? I have applied and my application is under review. How much knowledge/skill set does one actually need to get into the new collar program? From what I have gathered online, it's kind of a mixed bag and can take a long time to onboard someone. I am self taught, know the basics of two languages and have some small projects to show. Just wondering if there is anyone that has been through this process.
What are your work hours? A company I am interviewing for expects in-office 8-5 pm all while touting work life balance and a 1-hour lunch break (that’s to be had with the team). Smells like a sneaky 9-hour work day to me. Thoughts?
What does Global Transformation Center, WPB stands for ... What kind of projects are expected there ..
Question for in-house funds attorneys: How do you track and implement LP side letter requests? What system do you have in place to make sure that they don't slip through the cracks and the right team takes ownership?
What % of projects are in Deloitte are highly toxic in terms of WLB ? ( <=25% Day long hours monthly avg is okay in IT industry now) 50 and above I guess too bad .Deloitte USI
Is the option for work from home still there or is it completely work from office in Barclays?
Additional Posts in Fertility Bowl
Transfer should be happening within a month (🤞🏽) any tips that you’d recommend to prepare for a successful transfer/implantation?
My period usually comes on day 35-40 and been trying to go thru IVF in 2 months. Anyone experience this? My doctors are giving me mix responses.
I am so sad and will seek therapy. Have one son via ivf and was overly optimistic . My next ivf cycle was awful, despite good amh/fsh, with a huge drop off with day 5 embryos and abnormal results. I’m going to cycle again and possibly another time but I can’t stop feeling so pessimistic and I don’t know if I can deal with the waiting game again.
SO & I have been trying for 1yr with no results. We’re starting to consult with RE in Chicago from Northwestern but heard from friends that they preferred FCI. Any reviews for either/recommendations?
Deloitte open enrollment question - I have the Anthem PPO - do I need to enroll in anything additional for fertility benefits?
I will be doing FET next month and doctor was discussing to have natural or controlled transfer. Was curious to know people who went through transfer, what did u pick and why? I'm not sure what to do....
My embryo test results came back. This was my first round of IVF. 16 retrieved, 13 mature, 10 fertilized, 4 embryos, 1 normal. Only one 😭 I want to cry. Need to do another round. I am on WinFertility (20k). Any suggestions on what insurance/benefits I can get? Thanks
All 12 frozen eggs survived the thaw and underwent ICSI, fingers crossed for the next 6 days!
Hi all, I think I’m just in a funk from Lupron side effects and just feel down. Any tips on how to keep your mood up? I tried exercising but the meds got me so exhausted I almost passed out doing a 20 min easy peloton ride. Any suggestions welcome!!
Has anyone taken part in sperm sorting at their clinics to give a better chance of choosing X or Y sperm in IVF? My clinic has a study where it can skew girl 60/40% but the working hypothesis is that the abnormal Y sperm will fall down with the heavier X sperm, so there might also be a higher chance of aneuploidy. Wanting other people’s results on this. If not, on IVF genders in general - are you getting more boy or girl normal embryos?
Anyone here adopt a puppy during the infertility struggle? Husband and I considering it to have something positive throughout this situation and thinking the extra companionship would be helpful. I work from home. Husband has had many family dogs and lots of experience with it, I’ve had a family cat before. But not sure if it’s actually a good idea - wondering if it would truly help make us feel better and keep our minds off of the struggles or if it would just add extra stress. Thoughts?
Hi folks, I am looking to transfer my records from my existing RE to a new RE that I am exploring. What is the best way to do this? If I request my existing RE office to transfer, will it give them a hint I am going somewhere else? I am just exploring other places right now but don’t want to signal anything to my RE. Maybe this is standard procedure and I don’t need overthink this. Advice please!
Went for my first appointment after the egg retrieval and the doctor found a few cysts. So we postponed it to the next cycle. I didn't realise I would have to wait for another. He had given a birth control option but I just thought it would be better to wait for the natural cycle.
Can anyone educate me on these cysts? I dont find many articles about cysts after egg retrieval
If anyone lives near Philly and needs some medication for an upcoming egg retrieval (IVF or egg freezing) I have several boxes of gonal I am not using, and am happy to donate and help save you some money. Just pm me!
I am 36 and have consulted with RE , all results are normal ..Haven’t been able to conceive naturally . Did anyone try women Fertility Aid medication. Does it help with pregnancy
Any advice for going through fertility treatments, especially out of state, when you already have a child, and with a FT job? I feel overwhelmed thinking about starting this process again. Oh, and I work in office 5 days a week. Obviously never been through it with a child. And now my doctor is out of state. Help. HSG and ultrasound tomorrow…then next steps.
Anyone in the DC/MD/VA area - what IVF facility did you go with and why? Would you make the same choice again?
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I’m so sorry :( my wife had 2 miscarriages last year (one from IUI and second from IVF). She is now 12 weeks pregnant. Still terrified, but I think that it does get better. Time time time. She also found a lot of support through various apps and online communities.
12 week scan went well. Saw the little alien’s face. There is hope, OP!
Aww that’s amazing!!! So so happy for you, and hopeful for light at the end of this tunnel for us all!