Had to hop off a project because I couldn’t mentally handle it anymore and now I feel like a total failure. Have seen multiple therapists but it’s not helping

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You’re not a failure for putting yourself first! Don’t give up!! I know many people who went to at least 10 therapists before they found the one for them.

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Check out RSD, rejection sensistive dysphoria, and then YT ANTs by Dr. Amen.

See if that rings any bells or feels like what you're going through.

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Anyone here deal with hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating) of the face when in social settings? I’m active and not overweight. Just trying to find some solutions.

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HIRING: (x2) Integrated Producers with PM experience at an agency and/or producing. (x1) Project Coordinator who is detail oriented and willing to learn!
All roles are full-time
Start: April
Location: New York, NY

DM for link to apply!

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Great idea for a bowl. I used to race AFM in CA - I miss it.

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In advanced stages with EYP and S& / PwC Deals Strat in Singapore from a T2 firm in the region and 4-5 YOE. Any insights on how the two firms are? (pay, prestige, progression, client base, project types, exit opps, WLB, etc). Curious on how they are perceived in the market.

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Looking for the best recruiting firms/connections in Chicago for account or client side brand roles. Even if you're a creative and have worked with a good one please let me know. Thanks!

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Hey all,

YOE - 6 Years
Tech - Frontend Developer (Angular)

I have offers from 2 companies, same pay and almost same benefits.

Software AG (GCS Department) - work will be on Agile Apps (No Code/Low code)

Larsen & Toubro Infotech - Work will be on a client (Schneider) project

Which one would be better?
Please help

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Are Long Term Care Insurance Plan and Disability Insurance worthwhile? Do you need both?

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I’ve been negotiating a settlement on behalf of a client. OP is a major corp. we’ve gone back and forth for months, almost a year. Finally came to a final agreement and we’re reviewing for final signature. Then client is reviewing and decides they want something else modified. It’s a point of contention. OP has said no. Should I communicate this to client before pushing back against OP’s rejection of the mod?

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Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

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Hi fishes,
Need your advice.
Joined tcs 4 months back and now I resigned. I been mapped to us client project from day 1 I joined tcs and got good appreciation in the 3 months of time that I can do any assignment tasks from client.

Now I got offer from Telstra as a permanent role which was my earlier client and I resigned in tcs.

CTC in tcs is 16 lpa and now in telstra it is 20 lpa .
Yoe is 8 .Now they are offering me H1 in retention.egat else can I ask them for retaining or what would be best advice for me.

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My sleep schedule is starting to affect my health and work. Noticed I have bad keep procrastination, I sleep late just doing random things. Mostly because I enjoy my time at night and don’t like mornings at all. What are some things you do in the morning that get you excited to get to bed earlier?

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Hello Everyone!
I'm working as a project manager with YOE of 8 years and pay of 23 LPA - I have seen people make more, am i underpaid ?

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I am the president of our school board at Franklin Country School Corporation in Brookville, In. I would like to start a NASA Stem project starting in school year 2022-2023. Does anyone know where I need to start?

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Fishes, Help me choose : 1)Natwest Senior DS 2) Fractal, DS 3)Bain & Company, Data Science Specialist .. Natwest and Bain are both in-house roles. Won't be working for clients ( I prefer this) Fractal is client facing role . All offering similar packages ( discussions with Bain are in process they might give 2 lpa more than others) I am looking to sharpen my deep learning skills over the next couple of years. Also want good WLB. Which one to join? Bain & Company NatWest

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Has anyone done laser skin treatment or skin resurfacing? I have minor lines around my eyebrows (outer, not middle), and forehead. Any advice? I don’t think I want to do Botox but I’ve otherwise looked at maybe microneedling.

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Lit associates-what all do you delegate to your assistant? What do you ask them to do that helps you manage your symptoms?

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Alternatives to plasma transfusions for COVID patients- are there any?

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It’s been 5 weeks and I haven’t gone a day or night without crying and feeling haunted by them. I can’t eat, can’t sleep, can’t produce quality work, can’t find joy in anything I previously loved. This is the worst physical and psychological pain I’ve ever experienced.

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Bhai log, Nagarro me automation testing projects kaise hai Kitna automation aur manual hai ?
Project jaldi mil jayega ?
Client interview s difficult hai ? Batado yar please Nagarro

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My lwd in
Accenture was 5th June. By when I can expect receiving letter?

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Hi fishes , what is this one te tax deduction in Accenture. I have joined this month and so much of one time tax is deducted on the bonus!
Any inputs or comments on this would help .TIA!

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After years of good ideas being watered down and meh day-to-day work, the first piece I'm SUPER proud of is releasing tomorrow. Whether it gets PR or awards or not.. Just wanted to share how good it feels when you work your ass off, sell something cool to notoriously difficult clients, and the final product is actually pretty awesome. ✨🥺

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Data Analytics or reporting..what is the difference which is better..

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Hello All
Recently I have received offer from Presale Dept Freyr solutions.
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Big layoffs at Booz Allen Dubai and Abu Dhabi Cyber teams.

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Any more lay offs?

How does one transition from planning to a more integrated planning/buying role? I'm still pretty junior with only 1.5 years in the game and my experience is only in planning. (Cont.)

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Hi fishes when this onboarding document gets approved by onboarding team my doj is next week and when we get link for onboarding in hcl

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Guys, I am looking for a project in RPA technology. I have basic knowledge in Uipath and Automation Anywhere. Any leads please DM me.

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Guys.. What belts do you wear with your jeans ?

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Anyone know Deloitte M&A group comp? Was contacted by recruiter for consultant level in NYC doing CDD/ODD

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Best health tech companies to work for? Looking for bigger companies (2K-10K employees)

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Does anyone else feel EVP is a wind up and waste of time. I could go on for days about all the hoops we have to go through just to get bids approved

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Maybe it’s my boomer mentality, but what am I missing here? I don’t get why everyone is so hooked on the metaverse idea. I get the novelty of it but what’s the application of it???? The moment I have to slap VR goggles on to go to work is the exact moment I go buy a cabin in northern Wyoming and die as a hermit.

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I am so thankful for my husband. We’ve had a rough year. But when he just pulled up his calendar app, I peeked the “therapy” recurring event for every Tuesday coming up.

It took a really long time to nudge and ask and plead and toss everything short of an ultimatum at him to start this work on his personal and emotional development.

There were times I wasn’t sure anything would change, and I worried maybe I was just wasting time… but he’s still proving he’s the right one :)

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2020 made me lose hope on love I’m ready to give it a try.

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I was contacted about obtaining a Ukrainian bride 😳

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Connected with somebody but never got another message again: silence means no, right? Moving on.

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Facepalm Friday…I’ll go first. I’ve literally been in the wrong time zone all week 💀 thank god for no in person meetings.

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I was not prepared to feel so lonely changing careers in my 40s. No regrets on the new path or the new company, but it's clear my friends can't relate to what I am going through right now, and my wife is just not the person I can talk to about this. Generation gap with my colleagues probably isn't helping either.

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What does “not taking myself too seriously” really imply? I’m getting confused swiping profiles on dating apps.

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Single mom finally ready for Dating (apps). My friends and also single parents‘ experiences on Bumble & co give me anxiety😅 both males and females getting ghosted as soon as the mention that they already kids, or guys disappearing after they have had sex😌
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My roommates boyfriend is literally always here. I’m honestly getting really annoyed. Like he was here 4-6 days last week.

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My SO is scared to ask his parents for his money back. The money they were holding on to for him. Now that he’s a grown man I think he’s old enough to hold on to his own money. He like needs a valid excuse to ask for it back and I’m like why do you need an excuse when it’s your money and he’s like well I don’t want to start a fight…. And the last time he spoke to his parents about it apparently there’s been some mix ups and so they need to sort thru what’s his etc. (CONT’d in comments)

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Today has been an emotional roller coaster day for me: dealing with guilt, fear, and a touch of empowerment.

Wanting to donate my kidney to a person I consider a family but having a high level of anxiety and fear (of pain and something going wrong). We are in the very beginning so I may not be a match but I go through moments of wanting to match (empowerment) and not wanting to match (guilt). Anyone donated a kidney or organ here can help me through your experience?

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I slept at 9pm, got up at 12:45am and worked until 4:45am 😮‍💨 🤣 💤

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