Happy new year 🐠 I need some help finding a good couples counselor, need some help for me and my so but we want to make sure we have the right person to help us. Please recommend someone if you know (dm if more comfortable) thank you 🙏🏽

Is it settling or compromising when you marry someone who you dont vibe with 100% (They dont completely have the personality ur looking for) but they’re settled, religious, decent to look at (cont)

How much do you pay for daycare? Location and number of kids?

I’m staying at my friends house and her dog won’t stop humping all of the pillows. I’ve tried to stop him many times but he’s strong and persistent. I’m hysterically laughing and have no idea how to stop this 🤣

Sleeping on the couch with mom but she's snoring, should I kick her? I can't sleep...

I’m currently a third year in my small firm’s life sciences team. I’m not really stimulated by the work and although they say they have a lot of work, they’re not good at managing workload. I haven’t had much work on my plate even after asking many times for more than six months. I’m ready to move to a larger law firm. However, I am concerned how I’ll manage the workload as a mom to a toddler. The good thing about my firm is that they’re flexible with hours. Anyone have experience balancing?

I started searching for work at anther firm. I accepted an offer for the things I am looking for. I am freaking out over the change even though I know moving on is the best thing for me and my family. I feel so anxious. I'm sad for leaving coworkers now friends. I'm sad that the firm I am leaving let me down.
I will keep pushing forward but the anxiety of leaving is overpowering the excitement of new things to come (things I asked 4). My eyes r tearing rt now...what is wrong w/ me?

What is the best way to encourage kids still in school to pursue accounting? I'm talking like Sophomores/Juniors/Seniors in high school and maybe first-year of college kids. My daughter's teacher asked if I could come in for HS career/college fair day and I'm trying to put some stuff together. She said I can't embarrass her so "it can't be boring."

Anyone have tips on how to be a happier person in the morning? I’m crabby in the morning no matter how much sleep I get. I end up snapping at my kids for the most trivial things while they’re getting ready for school.

Has/would anyone in here marry someone outside their culture that is Muslim?

How to handle the dual employment in BGV? I have a friend who have a overlap of 30-40 days from his last organization which is not disclosed in CV and with current organization. I feel UAN check will spoil it but his overlap is cuz he wasn't able to return assets back during COVID. Any suggestions?

Ngl this crisis just affirmed my decision about not wanting to have kids. Serious props to the parents attempting to simultaneously bill and homeschool their kids.

Anyone else having relationship issues since conora? Anyone know if divorce rate has increased?

A guy who is claiming to be in love with me (a black woman and immigrant), is a conservative (pro-trump, anti-gun laws, denies that there is racism etc). Are those red flags to make me cut him off?

My company will file the green card for process for me soon and I’m planning on getting married at the end of the year. Is it better to file as single or as married so that my SO will also get their gc too, but will it impact the timeline? I heard the process for Chinese always take so long. (FYI- I’m not Chinese nor Indian. My SO is Chinese) Is it better to file it with my SO or as single? Does it matter?

Playing golf with a newborn - Just had our first and she is 6 weeks now. I’ve been getting over to range on Saturday morning for an hour or two but hoping to play some rounds now that weather is turning. Question — How do you guys handle getting golf in with baby responsibility? Any tips?

Hello!
I am very new to the States and am actually from India.
I have always been a girl who had many friends and was never alone.
I don't have any friends here unfortunately and wanted to ask if there are any Facebook groups or other forums especially for Indians who want to interact with each other.

In general, you can also give me tips on how to make friends.

I had a wedding planned for last May. Covid struck and we delayed until September originally thinking the pandemic would pass. We were wrong. Delayed it again until this upcoming May. We are 6 months out so I don’t want to be an alarmist but things are going very poorly again. What are the chances of things looking normal-ish by then? My SO does the brunt of the planning which I greatly appreciate and she is great at it, but I don’t know how much more of the rescheduling she can take.

How do you find a travel buddy when you’re single and most of your married girlfriends prefer to travel with their spouse? I would like to attend a friends destination wedding this summer but don’t want to go alone. 28 F

Anyone finding it increasingly difficult to participate in huge family zoom calls? I feel bad for “missing” calls but I can’t handle talking w/ extended fam that sans covid I wouldn’t talk to but 1/yr

My fiancé brought up threesomes twice within a couple days. We have also watched porn together and she always picks threesome videos. How do I tell if she actually wants to do it or if it’s some kind of test or if she just brought it up because she thought I would be into it?

Just got asked for references, but I'm not sure if the offer is going to be close to something I leave for. Is it bad etiquette to ask for details before providing references? I'm worried about outing myself to others at Bain.

Now that I got into school, I’m thinking of quitting and traveling. Anyone want to go to vietnam? I’m 26f and not a fan of traveling alone (as a woman) but love island hopping / motor biking / good food / etc

Anyone else completely over doing work when it's your first day back from vacation?

Which meme coin are you all gambling on next? How many millions or billions are you buying? I used to fantasize about traveling somewhere for work and never getting back on the airplane but now that my daydreaming has had to stay in my 'home office' this is all I have...

I’ve worked as assistant manager for years, but it doesn’t look like I’ll be getting a promotion anytime soon. I feel bad leaving since I'm kind of the glue around here and I’ve gotten to know pretty much everyone. Any advice?

Posting on behalf of my friend :
Counter offer made and manager communicated through email .
How long will it take for the incumbent to receive revised compensation offer ? No grade change was discussed will that be decided by HR or not required

Recently attended an FA conf. where there was discussion about 401(h) plans & their tax advantages.
I know a variety of 401(k) providers available via my B/D but don’t know of 401(h) ones. Do you ?

Were employees laid off from BASES?

Has anyone had any success here with recording a macro to set up a pivot table? For context, I am just looking to run a pivot and then run the macro and have it show the pivot table completed with the right fields in columns, rows, and values and then also formatted how I want. I tried to just record doing the setup of the macro, but I got an error message when trying to rerun.

Will Lara fire 15% of us over a conference zoom call by end of May 2023? Only time will tell.

Has anyone used a virtual assistant?
My practice pivoted hard during covid.
I used to travel 60,000 miles a year to meet clients. Now it's mostly virtual from my home office. I have clients choose virtual who live closer to my office than I do.
What is your experience and what do you have them do?

Google Candidate Survey: Tell us what you think!

I just received this email and curious if a HC decision was made or is this automated?

Have you ever been hired at a company and immediately realized it wasn’t what they portrayed it to be, and immediately moved onto another job? Is this common? Wondering how many people skip companies after very little time bc true colors come out?

What are the firms that are hiring? (corp that are good exit options for Big4 with 5 YOE)

If I join CTS in mid of July this year, would I be eligible for increment in next year's appraisal cycle? Considering hypothetically that I get a good rating

It is astonish the kind of relationship advice that most people post here. Aside from one or other trying to be empathetic most people post stuff like “yeah you should just break up/divorce”. I’m always flabbergasted by the lack of respect for third party feelings and history. Here’s my advice to literally everyone in those threads. Go to therapy. Because you are either here seeking validation or dumping your own resentments into others.

For those of you with kids, I am looking to travel with my wife and son (who’ll be 2.5 years old at the time of travel) to either Greece or Italy - any suggestions on which one to do? Not planning on doing both in one trip and not looking for suggestions to consider alternatives. Simply looking for advice on which one to do with a toddler this age from those that have experience traveling with kids. Leaning towards Italy but I doubt a 2.5 year old cares much about Roman history.

Do you think pet names undermine respect in a romantic relationship? 🤔

Been applying for jobs, have a decent resume, but not hearing back from places, or their hiring process just sucks. What are y’all doing? How are we getting interviews and new roles??

Moving in about 3 weeks. Thoughts / recommendations on removal firms etc? We have maybe 2 vans of stuff to take 30 blocks on Manhattan.

Does anyone know of where I can get something notarized during this time? Usually Chase bank has been my go to but unsure if they are still operating this service. The UPS Store is charging $50+! TIA.

Male wedding guests: where do you get your fit? How much did you spend? Do you have a go-to colorway?

Does anyone want to play some URF?

There is a special place in hell for the people who use space of two cars while street parking.

If you got married in the area (or upstate / nearby states), how much was your wedding and what’s your HHI? (Unless family paid)

A person asked my friend for friends with benefits… if its all about money then isn’t it prostitution? Am a dumb person… please do educate… just curious what other people think (i know each people opinion it changes… no judgemental) just share thoughts 😁

is anyone familiar with the neighborhood just south of barclays center? i am interested in an apartment at Park Pl and 5th Ave but am concerned the area is seedy given its proximity to barclays. i assume it’s similar to living a few blocks south of penn station… is that more or less the vibe? thanks!

Completely forgot about LDW and want to celebrate, anything good going on in NYC? Any suggestions on what to do and where to go near the city?

Does anyone have experience using Loftey? Starting up the apartment hunt again soon

Anyone want to do brunch Sunday?

whats the difference between renting an apt, condo, and co-op?

Anyone know why social security tax decreased on this paycheck

I live in a tfc cornerstone apartment which i got on a covid deal a few years ago. My lease ends next march. Is there a max rent increase they can apply? I heard 5% but wasn’t sure

Where can I buy a last minute santacon outfit in the city?

Anyone have sublets or apartments for rent for Aug1? Or have any suggestions for temp housing? Need a place ASAP, and haven’t found anything for Aug 1

Currently an analyst (should make consultant in the spring) at Deloitte in Internal Audit in Houston. I am planning to put in for a transfer to the NYC office some time next summer. Was curious of a few things:

1) How easy is it to transfer offices?

2) Will Deloitte give me a cost of living adjustment?

3) Curious about the general culture of the NYC office?

4) General Salary range for a consultant in NYC (advisory)?

Anyone with experience taking OURBUS? How was it

I can seem to find a Pfizer booster anywhere in the city, anyone know where I might find one