Happy Resurrection Sunday. I have RA & Fibromyalgia. It’s really hard balancing working from home & a family (married w/ 3 kids). I’m having issues with flares. I feel as though it is affecting my relationship with my family more than it is affecting my work. The reason I took a stay at home position was because I wanted to spend more time with my family and because of my health issues. I want to find that balance even though I have auto immune diseases. Anybody else having this issue/problem?

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I was in the situation for many years. But it was not maybe as serious as yours healthwise. I had an undiagnosed autoimmune condition and it turns out now I have some thing called hyper mobility.

I was a lawyer at a firm and I went in-house to a company that respected my hours. For a few years when my kids were very small I worked 60% time.

We also spent a ton of money on help. We had no local family. We didn’t save, but we muddled through and I got to the other side of slightly older children and making more money.

DM if you want to talk life I’m happy to do it.

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Will do! Thanks.

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