Has anyone been in a relationship where it’s so wrong but feels so right at the same time? Wrong in the sense that we are different religions, speak different languages (common language is English) and have an overall different outlook on life. Right in the sense that he treats me so well, he’s grounded and driven. I am so torn.

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If it was wrong, why did you get in... Love doesn't speak any language or is religious.. Love is love. Don't hide behind these aspects and let it go.. You may never find the right relationship..

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