Has anyone cheated on their partner, felt horrible from the guilt, confessed to them and then managed to still save the relationship? Or is cheating something no one gets over ever?

Spoke with a friend for like 8 straight hours and I’m slowly beginning to think my friend is a narcissist

Iv’e been dating someone for about 6 months now, but it is only recently that we’ve started spending multiple days at a time together. Since spending more time together I’ve realised that we just need seriously different amounts of sleep. Has anyone ever ended things with someone because they just don’t have as much energy as you do? Or is that really ridiculous?

What's everyone looking for at the moment (1) someone who can help you become a housewife/husband (2) partner in crime (3) travel buddy (4) marriage (5) marriage with kids?

Morning Everyone,

Hope everybody is having a great weekend and for people who are not so having a great time like me and facing some difficulties in life, please know that it is just a phase and it too shall pass like the good ones and yes talking to your mother might help she has the greatest strength.

Also can I request you all to please give me 11 likes as I am new and I am not able to start a chat. I am in a great need to find a job.

I will be really grateful if your guys could help 🙂☮️

How soon after marriage do guys start demanding kids? Asking for a friend

Been dating for a little over a year, but she hasn’t introduced me to her family yet. I don’t have any plans for thanksgiving this year, and she didn’t invite me to spend the holiday with her family (local). Is it still too early or is it a red flag?

New attorney here! Currently, I’m a child advocacy lawyer, but I want to get into family law (divorce, custody, etc.). I’m constantly advised to steer clear of family law; but is it really THAT bad??

SO and I have been constantly arguing about little things over the last few weeks. I know this question may sound simple but how do we stop?

Having really bad anxiety for international assignment coming up - fantastic opportunity work wise but hate not seeing boyfriend for a long time, especially when I’m super emotionally unstable now

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

Should a husband wife leave high paying job to pursue MS in USA?

I'm an engineer and I love building things but based on what I've seen about Gen Z, I think I'm going to raise my kids in a less modern style. No TV, no internet, at least until a certain age.

How long do you cry after breakup? I cried for one night, and felt weird day after. Now I feel like I am way better, maybe it was because I know it had to happen (even if I was the one who got broken up with) and probably I see that more than hurt of relationship ending

Have you ever taken a job you know you will hate because you needed the money right away? I have a family to take care of. I don't want to be plowing through our savings for selfish reasons like my mindframe at work, but I don't want to make our lives worse by being miserable. It's a matter of really ruining some of our financial future if we don't get money soon.

How do you nicely tell your boyfriend you are not happy in your relationship? Please advise.

Made a comment about a specific city being good to raise kids in bc of accessibility to good schools/colleges, and SO freaked out because he thinks I’m trying to keep him in one spot (both of work in this city, my family is here and his is not). He thinks I’m trying to stay close to my family and isolate him from his, which is not my intention at all. Told me it was a big red flag and he hasn’t talked to me since. What should I do?

Anyone in Boston? Trying to find friends that I can relate to more than just by age

Had a second baby almost a year ago now and just can’t get back into work mode. I used to be a workaholic and now can’t find any motivation in my current job. Most of it is probably sleep deprivation and feeling like I don’t have any time to myself anymore, plus burnout. Anyone go through this after having kids? How long did it last? I don’t have the option of simply quitting, but contemplating switching to a true 9-5, no-stress job, possibly out of law, while they’re young. But that’s scary.

Best Christmas things to do with a two-year-old?

Why is it so hard to find a relationship? Is it a corporate thing?

Anyone going to IAPP next week in D.C.?

How much % raise I can ask considering 601-602 promotion in CCB. Also what will be the bonus?

What’s wait time for a calatrava? Want to splurge

Hearing there will be some heavy layoffs in Technology. Anyone have any details?

I was recently laid off and I am actively search for a new role. I am mainly targeting ScrumMaster, Product Analyst, and Business Analyst jobs, but I am open to others.

Must be located in Austin, Texas or fully remote.

EXP
5 Mo- Business Analyst 3
1.5 Y- Venture Capital Associate
1.5 Y- Strategic Planning Analyst

Certifications
ScrumMaster
Specialist Accounting and Finance
Specialist Business Intelligence

Contact
737-707-5156
ajaspercannon@gmail(dot)com
www.linkedin(dot)com/in/jcstrategy

Favorite legal story of 2019?

Can someone advise what's the typical policy consulting fee for market entry in Indian states. Thanks

How do you handle difficult clients? Our agency has a client that asks for MANY corrections yet refuses to pay more for the extra work we're doing for her even if we followed her original guidelines to a T due to a history of this happening before.

I have 3 year experience working at Deloitte Consulting and want to move on to a Sales role and Career. I currently make $110K, is this feasible comp to make starting out in Sales?. How can I learn about comp in your industry?

Besides the comp question, are there any resources/forums/books online that anyone can recommend that’ll get me a good understand of what to expect out of a sales role, different sales roles, how to succeed, build career, etc. Im starting from 0

Thank you!

About to hit my 6 year anniversary (fully vested 401k) and I'm frustrated by the lack of upward mobility and the terrible splits in revenue vs compensation but I'm worried about giving up job security. Honestly, complacency has gotten the best of me and I'm looking for some advice.

"You can't please everyone!" Being in customer support for 4+ years, that statement has never been truer.

My SAP LABS HR said that Gratuity is paid in 2years in SAP.
How is it possible?

Everywhere eligibility is 4-5 years only.

Any entrepreneurs out there that feel like there’s a million things no one told you before starting your company? (Good&Bad) 5 years in myself and nearly could write a book with my list of sh*t no one told me… curious to know what’s on your list???

I am actively Looking for Job Change in UAE, Qatar and India having 2.5 + yrs of experience in Cyber security domain ,#cybersecurity, #networksecurity , #SIEM , Log analysis, incident response, threat hunting and vulnerability assessment.

Ready to relocate , Any leads could be helpful for me.

Hope to hear from you soon.

For further information please contact me.

I got 2 offers one from NTT Data with 23 lacs and Publics sapient 24 lacs .

Which company better for salesforce technology??

The real question is how can we make money off of this outbreak?

Anyone interested in working for Bain? Feel free to DM, happy to have a chat :)

Brag about something you’re proud of, however small

I really struggle with sharing any personal hardships with anyone, including my wife. Anyone else the same way? Why is it so hard to open up?

Physically ill just being back home and knowing I have work travel tomorrow. So much has been going on in my life and I thought 1 week of vacation would help but I feel worse. Don't know what to do

Does anyone else go through giants swings of clarity/confusion? I have these moments where I’m sure 2020 is going to be my year, and the other moments where I just ask myself, “what’s the point?”

I’m new to consulting and my project. I have a 90 minute working session with a client going step by step in documenting their process. This has be a bit anxious as it’s a long call and I have adhd. Plus I don’t really know what I’m doing and afraid of looking incompetent.

Which antidepressants other than Wellbutrin have zero negative impact on sexual performance? All SSRIs seem to suck in this area.

What's causing me so much stress about work? How can I slow my heart down? Sunday PM is a nightmare walking into the week.

Please help!

Anyone have experience with ketamine or ayahuasca?

Someone hug me virtually please! It just hasn’t been my day

Is it just me…or are people more overly bitter these days? It seems at every corner every person I talk to or encounter they are just bitter…

I’m feeling so depressed. My project is remote and I hate it but no way out. Looking for a new job. I just moved out on my own after living with parents, but now I cry all the time even though (contd)

I’m depressed. Nothing unique about my depression - I’m in big law, my career defines me, when I’m not working I can’t find the will to get off the couch, I’m sad or I’m numb…I know I’m the only one that can make a change to my life…I’m on antidepressants. Just extremely unmotivated and paralyzed. Self-help books are not for me, but I am curious - has anyone tried a guided depression/anxiety journal? Any recommendations if so? Or, if you have experienced the same, what steps did you take?

I’m 8 months into a new job and I want to quit already. Uughhhh. My boss I’m leaning is deceptive and very political. This sucks

Everyday I can’t seem to hit the required billable hours. I’m overwhelmed by emails and people asking me where an item is. I feel like I’m not good enough. I keep making mistakes I shouldn’t make at my level. I wish I could just quit so I wouldn’t have to be miserable everyday.

Does anyone get depressed on a sort of seasonal schedule? Not like SAD, but in cycles throughout the year that seem to track to the same time period each year.

I love spring and summer, but every March, my depression gets significantly worse for a few weeks. I usually have a second dip in August/September. I’ve yet to identify a trigger, only a pattern…

I accidentally overshared information about having anxiety and trouble focusing with someone who is kind of important at the company and now I regret it. She never responded and probably forgot about it but my husband told me that I shouldn’t have done that and I shouldn’t share things like that with people at work unless you are really close with them and now I’m freaking out and crying because I’m scared she will remember that and tell my boss or other higher up people.

How do you guys deal with the politics of consulting? I have bad anxiety as it is, but it’s really wearing on me. I feel singled out in a lot of cases by colleagues who don’t have much tact (contd)