Has anyone else pushed someone away due to attachment issues I didn’t realize I had? And then as soon as they moved on, you realized how much you loved them?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

You sound like you have Avoidant Attachment. I recommend the book Attached by Amir Levine. I was on the other end of a toxic relationship with an Avoidant and this book helped me heal.

like

All the time

Related Posts

What's the deal with BBDO LA?

like

What’s the NYC lit lateral market like right now? First year looking to move and not sure if I want to transfer thru my firm or switch.

like

I'd appreciate any insight on working as a management-side employment attorney in Dallas, or the market for employment lawyers. Browsing LinkedIn and doesn't seem like very many available positions. Thanks!

like

I am having 20 month of experience in D365.What are the minimum salary Big4 paid to me?

like

What is the PwC equivalent for a Kearney Associate and/or ACN consultant? 4-5 YOE, both in industry and consulting

Does anyone work at Ferrari corporate? Long shot but looking for a referral 😅

likeuplifting

What’s your go to process/steps for drafting an MSJ on a case you’re already familiar with?

like

What is the average salary that i could negotiate for a Business Intelligence Developer role? I feel i am being underpaid in my current company. It would be great if someone could suggest me how to improve my skill set and how to prepare for an interview on this role. TIA.

like

Any suggestions for a good wine (at Total Wine) to make mulled wine?

like

Had a recruiter reach out to me on LinkedIn about a Business Development role with GrowthPlug (tech sales). Meeting tomorrow for an informational interview. I’ve never done this before so does anyone have any advice for how to prepare and what sort of questions to ask/expect to be asked? Any tips are welcome. Thanks!

Looking to have a brief conversation at with someone at OW Dubai to gain transparency w.r.t. the recruitment stages post initial interview, breakdown of pay & overall culture. Appreciate all the other advice on the forum.

like

How are SAP projects in PwC?
I have Accenture and PwC
Pls suggest

like

Which one is better considering future career prospects, job security, wlb in between Oracle Financial Services (OFSS) and Daimler Truck Innovation Centre India ( DTICI). PS: DTICI is offering 2L more than OFSS Would anyone please share your insights Oracle Daimler Truck Innovation Center India

like

Anyone here a sales engineer for health cloud have good/bad experiences to share?

like
like

EOY review time! Boutique firm with large workload. I’ve signed multiple clients and met my billable requirements in the months I’ve been here. Is a 20k raise request reasonable?

like

Noob question. I was consistently investing from the last 6 months in etfs upto 130k. Up until day before my account showed gains of 10k and today all of it is wiped out. What is I’m the rationale..

like

What is the average TC for pharma associate directors in business roles (e.g., business development, portfolio strategy)? What’s the average timeline for promotion to director?

like

Hi Fishes, I'm currently a Data Scientist with 4YoE in Data Science, ML, MLOps, I'm targeting MAANG companies. What should be the approach that I should follow. I have no prior experience in DSA and competitive programming

like

I'm from a very conservative culture. I'm reluctant to have sex unless my SO and I already perceive each other as life partner (no need to be engaged or married). Would it be very hard for me to date here in the U.S.?

likefunny

Additional Posts in Depression/Anxiety Talk

Less than a year before I can retire and not sure I can make it. The stress at home, work and with the aches and pains of my 54 year old body are taking their toll. I wake up every weekday and dread the coming 14 hour day. I live for the bliss of two days off on the weekend when I can attempt to just ignore everything until Monday morning.

like

How do you deal with the stress of demanding clients, bosses, etc? I’m on a small team in a stretch role where I get multiple urgent asks from my Partner and clients each day, and never quite feel like I know what I’m doing. I know this is part of the learning process, but I get anxious hearing an outlook notification, and am constantly stressed that I’m not doing a good job

like

Wanted to share smth I found recently. I felt like it was pretty darn accurate. I’ll provide the link here but there’s a screenshot I took that I feel I can relate to quite heavily. https://pairedlife.com/love/infatuations

I’ve struggled with so many heavy infatuations before and a friend recommended this. Hope it helps anyone else out there who’s gone through this or may be going through this right now.

Post Photo
like

Have you ever compare yourself to another peer on a team and also feel you are being compared to by the project boss? How to feel confident?

like

With a couple of breakups I’ve been in complete shock and cry a lot. Don’t know what happened and I with a few online rejections I feel complete lack of confidence. Now when it comes to work...

like

My anxiety is so bad in the mornings especially if im sleeping without my boyfriend. Depending on work-related stress, it can get better through the day but not always. I feel like i just want to be

like

Has anyone dealt with parents that never listens to what you actually need? All I need is support and empathy, but they always hand me oranges when I ask (specifically for apples). They think they are doing their best to care for me. But when I explain that I’m not happy at work and all they do is shame me for not being strong or smart enough for it. They ignore me when I keep coming out to them as gay (had to do it multiple times), and still keeping asking me to get a bf. I’m so bottled and mad

like

Has anyone came off Zoloft successfully? I have been reading about the withdrawals and it sounds terrible.

like

I’m having trouble staying on top of things that I know are important. I just don’t care most of them time and the. Maybe once a month I get all concerned and make a list then I only do a couple things on it until going into the funk again.

like

I was looking for a job abroad since sept. but nada (I'm from a developping country)
Due to corona, i think i will be stack in my job for the coming months
I feel so desprate and I'm losing hope

like

If health insurance wasn’t tied to employment I’d quit work. Would love to have a little farm and a dog but I’m very far from this fantasy.

like

Having super anxiety right now. Really want to leave consulting but afraid I won’t be able to find anything with a comparable salary and better work/life — my clients seem to be running just as fast hard. I do like parts of my job, particularly my colleagues. But we are so understaffed it’s insane.

like

I wish I had someone to hug me

like

Has anyone taken an extended leave due to mental health issues under fmla? Is it paid? Trying to assess. My therapist recommended it

like

I’m scared to put my all in things because I lose track of time when im stuck in work due to my hyperfocus

like

Dear God please give me the strength

likeuplifting

Hello there, I’m just wonder if anyone of you experienced studying or interview prep anxiety. I’m very chill during learning process but when it comes to deadline stress reduces my ability to generate thoughts. Any ideas how to overcome it?

like

I think I have ED. Not sure how to go about it.

Does anyone else get more depressed and anxious in the office/on-site vs remote? How do you deal with it? My depression and mood swings are really blunted when I can work at home from my sunny office

like

Did being on antidepressants affect your sex life?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Send download link to your phone

OR

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

Messaging rates may apply

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal