Has anyone encountered a colleague who has a legitimate alcohol dependency? As in has to drink before, during, and after work to function?

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No - alcoholism is a former colleague who having been at the receiving end of a traumatic physical attack took consolation in Vodka. After 4 years of daily abuse - "it's a softer morning" they used to say, by 9pm they were pretty well pickled - they passed away caused by complications associated with extensive liver damage.
A truly tragic waste of a wonderful mind, and compassionate individual.

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I have a colleague who doesn't drink during work (to my knowledge) but drinks like 10 whiskey neats with 4-5 beers as chaser on the reg at team dinners which happen a couple times every week.

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When I was an intern somewhere else, one of the managers got the shakes around noon and 5pm. He'd go out to his car at lunch and drink vodka

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Yes.

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^ jesus

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I'd say that's heavy drinking vs a true dependency...

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Every person on my team abuses alcohol.

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P1 wow. That sounds like alcoholism..

Omg ALR, that is so sad!
And yeah, I don't think my colleague is an alcoholic, just that he uses alcohol as a way to cope with his real life issues (going through a pretty brutal divorce)

That is really sad... but doesn't mean p1's story isn't alcoholism either.

Being away from home and realizing that things at home are screwed - i get that. And yes, self medication with alcohol isn't uncommon. When it turns to true dependency though ("I can't get up without it") then there's a real problem.
It was very very sad. Many of us felt culpable in that we should have intervened more strongly - in the end though, individual choices are individual choices, all you can do is support and be there if someone wants to reach out.

PwC do I know you? And we worked on the same team before but now you are all alone?

I'm 90% sure I know who OP is and I've worked with him.

There seems to be more alcohol abuse in consulting than other places. I watched a manager drink herself right out of her job. She hid it well for quite some time but eventually it definitely caught up with her.

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