Has anyone experienced sexual assault without reporting and come out in the other side? Had a horrific experience with a partner at my last employer and didn’t handle it in the best way - and tbh think it’s impacting my daily life more than I care to admit.

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Yes. Good for you for reaching out… I think it will be really helpful for you to talk with someone who can help you see your way to the other side. A therapist could help a lot, but a mentor may be good too… and I’m sure others will chime in here offering to talk. Feel free to DM me.

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Yes. Most survivors don’t report. I echo the suggestion to pursue therapy and am also more than happy to talk (or listen) anytime. Sending love your way.

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Yes, but not at work. DM me if you want to talk.

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RAINN is a wonderful resource. Reach out to them. They will hook you up locally. It saved me in a time of crisis a few years ago.

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I just want to say I'm really sorry you went through that and wish you the best.

It’s not too late to press charges and/or report to your old employers HR.

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