Has anyone had issues coming back to India from abroad. I’m under incredible pressure from family members to go and “settle” abroad. How did anyone convince if you guys did? What to do? Just keep busy and ignore?

Another one for the parents: if you originally didn’t want kids and ended up changing your mind, when did you change your mind and why?

Thought would put this out there
43 M Persian/Syrian/East Indian Mutt - born and raised in East Africa.
Looking for a serious long term relationship - distance isn't an issue for now - willing to relocate/move. Looking to start a family (fur babies or adoptions are viable options) I know this bowl doesn't usually trend that way - but am thinking there maybe someone else out there that feels the same way.

How to deal with your mother in law from hell on your wedding day? My fiancé also agrees that his mom is losing it and she has been horrible during this whole wedding planning process. I don’t want to have to think about her or have her ruin my day.

What do you guys do at the end of the day? I teach in a middle school self contained class. Grades 6 to 8. At 2 the kids come back from gym and then I have them until 4. By 2 they are ready to go home and at that time I need to teach civics or science and they are so not motivated. Any suggestions on how to make the last 2 hours more bearable? Thanks

Got broken up with by my bf of 1 yr. He said he felt like something was missing from our relationship but couldn’t (or wouldn’t) say what. I know I should just focus on moving on but I can’t help but fixate on this. We had similar goals, values, lifestyles and were pretty compatible. We got along great and the physical chemistry was still there. So what could be missing????

What resources would you recommend to find a full time nanny in Houston? Any specific websites, services, groups or places that have worked for you in the past?

What are some thoughts that get you out of your breakup sadness zone? I need to borrow them.

1. Have a better life than the one you imagined with him
2. Build a big life. Being rich and famous solves everything.
3. Mind your business. Be the main character in your story.

My kids were really upset with me when I told them that my job as an engineer did not mean that I drove trains for a living

My partner and I have started doing the same 3 exercise HIIT burnout and timing it as a little competition and way to feel together even when I’m away traveling. Thought I would share the idea!

Did yall hear about the Chicago mom who had her kid taken away because she wouldn't accept that her child was transgender? As a parent, that's actually kind of scary that the government would that with no basis of abuse or neglect. Smh

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

Moving to London in June for a permanent role. What's a good area to live in, friends? Looking for a 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom place ideally.

Fish who are married with kids, what do you do to structure your work-time and set healthy boundaries with your loved ones so that you can stay on top of your work and avoid distractions?

My ex whom Ive known for 7 years and cohabited with for 5, is a very good man, helps me cook, clean and watch our 2 kids. That being said, I can’t help but notice how depress I am when he is around. He always seems to be attached to me even tho we aren’t a together anymore. I left the “family home” with the two kids 3 years ago when my depression was starting to affect my parenting. I left him everything we had and started from zero in a new home. But he keeps coming back 😣.

My son wants to study the same as me, he is only 12 years old, but he has an immense love for biology. In spite of how flattered I feel I can't stop thinking how difficult it is to find a stable job in this profession, is it time to talk about it, or do I wait for a little longer?

32 M in London. Got divorced after a very short marriage. Have moved on and not given up on love, willing to give love and marriage another chance. Happy to connect with 🐟 from US, but just letting you know life’s great in London!

My roommate is moving out soon and I’m super sad because we’ve been living together for over 6 years. But I’m now planning to get a cat and I lowkey wish she was out just a bit sooner.

Is a 1 bedroom apartment big enough for a couple, especially if one primarily works from home? Thinking about moving in with my SO.

Even if you have ZERO interest in the job, anyone else apply for open jobs on LinkedIn for which you know 100% you're immensely qualified/even overqualified—that is, the place would frankly be lucky to have someone of your experience/portfolio/reputation—all just for one reason: to see if you even get a f$@!*ng response? Or if yet again, you won't get through the ATS robo-gatekeeper?

I am graduating this weekend from school(it’s masters degree and I’m 30’years old) and I am looking to celebrate the weekend with an amazing scotch. Don’t have a preference with the type. Looking for something within $500. TIA

How is persistent for women employees?

Any opening for Accounts payable- Payment processing like swift,wire transfers, sepa,ACH after validating invoice T&E..my YOE is 3.5

Hey Fishes.
EY GDS is looking for candidates with 5+ experience in OT/CS (SCADA/ADMS/OMS/DERMS/AMI
If any one interested I can refer
Please ping me separately @

What do you think about the latest acronym STEAM instead of STEM? Science, tech, engineering, art, math.

Does Walmart have PIP as a year end rating? What happen if someone get it?

Hi fishes,

29F here. Is Deloitte (India and USI) having any women in leadership hiring programs going on?

Any agencies we know of that have tried or are planning to try bringing remote employees back to office? Is there any way around it if you don't want to?

How do you let go of the need to be liked by subordinates? I have a people pleasing streak.

If there is a case that we have to quarantine again. Do you all think it is possible for store associates to work remotely? If so, what are some ways this could work? I fear another pandemic or outbreak and so many people being out of work again. I can't even fathom those that had jobs in retail that had little to no choice to not be remote.

How do you handle students who refuse to do anything and fail the class and then the administration has an issue with the general education teacher about the child failing?

UCF - path to playoff? Thoughts?

One of my sports medicine friends recommended doing some simlple hip, back, and neck stretches during brief down times on shift. Makes a huge, huge difference

What’s your “eh, I’d be comfortable” 9-5 salary at a different job than public accounting? Excluding inflation, mine is $220k/year. If I made $220k, I wouldn’t worry about moving up or making more money. What’s yours? I’m in LA for reference.

What are 2-3 of your most credible news outlets?

Fastest growing practice area within healthcare law?

Hi can anyone tell me
How to get a job in EUROPE as sap successfactors learning/ learning and development specialist ???
I have tried on linked in but got no such reply yet ..no interview ..what should be my approch ??

Hi all,

I am getting an offer of 72000 Euro for Darmstadt, Germany. I'm primarily a backend developer with 8 years of experience and getting paid 27LPA in Bangalore. Is this a fair offer ?

Hey Fishes need one suggestion I have 2 offer :
1. Amex Bangalore : 1.7 Lakh per month after taxes (27 LPA fixed + 2lakh variable + 1lakh joining bonus)
2. Luxoft romania : 2.5 Lakh per month after Taxes (15000 RON per month post tax , 25000 pre tax).

Kindly suggest which one should I opt for.

Hi folks, has anyone paid any company to file H1B for them? I got a call from a company called Cyber Chasse. Post an initial screening call, if selected we have to pay 708 usd (non-refundable) for H1B registration. Once we get the visa, processing fee of 5500 + 18% GST USD.

Is this legit? Or the chances are so low that I should not go for it?

Can dependent work in EU? TCS sponsored visa for Germany.
Skill- java, J2EE, oracle plsql

I have Us L2 visa . Can anyone help me get company or project within Accenture in BI domain.

Hi Fishes. I got an offer in UK for 44k Pounds. Work location in UK is Birmingham. My current CTC in India is 19 lpa. Is this offer good enough? Please advise.

Hi Fishes,

Having 8 years of experience in QA 5 years in Automation and 3 years in Manual working as senior test specialist in IBM india, looking for opportunity abroad as Automation test lead it will be really helpful if anyone refer for position.

Thanks and regards

Hi All,

What salary is good in canada toronto ? I am getting onsight opportunity but HR discussion is still pending? I heard tax rates are high in canada? What salary will be good to stay happily and also save money?

Hi! Anyone who can refer in TCS, Dublin? Would be awesome ☺️

Hi Sharks

Would be delighted to have some referal for onsite opportunities outside India.

YOE: 5

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