Has anyone had success in dating someone who is guarded emotionally and often shuts down in moments of conflict?

Any smart, funny and caring Desi F Interested in connecting? Trying really hard to avoid the matrimonial route.

Is three a website to check (objectively) if someone is cute by uploading his pics?

Ladies of fishbowl, question. Girl says she wants to get drinks as friends, but is persistent in getting your number to text. Overthinking or is there something behind this? I’m also good friends with her current landlord/roommate.

32 M in the Bay Area and bored in quarantine. Any F looking to chat?

33f, tall looking for like minded Christian male

I constantly can’t make it past six months of dating someone. I’ve been with someone for a few months now and we’re getting closer to that milestone and it’s like something in my brain flips. Everything they do is suddenly driving me nuts. Some of it legitimate concerns that were there since the beginning of our relationship that I saw past because of the feelings I was developing. Others totally random stuff that’s driving me nuts. Any advice? I really thought I was ready for this.

I initiated meet up several times, even planned a hike with my date, but my date has never proactively made plans with me. Is it a clear sign of no interest?

How far into dating did you decide to move in with a partner in the city and how old are you?

Haha this is going to sound pretty shallow, but are there any young guys that are on good looking/masculine/dl-ish side looking to chat/snap? 22M here

45 M In Bay Area CA . Any female 🐠 from Bay Area here?

Met a guy(a coworkers best friend) Friday, we spent the night together and it was great, we laughed, we got to know each other, he was such a gentleman about everything, offered to pay my Uber, asked me to text him when I got home. I heard very little from him after that, and the last text (on Sunday) I sent he left me on read as of yesterday. So my question is, is it weird for me to ask him if he’d be interested in dinner next week? Should I take the left on read as a sign/red flag, etc?

What’s the right age difference? My friends set me up on a date with a girl who is 12 years younger to me. I was feeling so uncomfortable all through my dinner with her.

I’ve slept with my boss and made out with him on multiple occasions. Not only does he have a girlfriend but my best friend is also in love with him. Never have a third class of wine folks

Have started going on dates with a guy. Our dates don’t seem to be consistent. One date is great and the next date is just ok. Is this normal?

Moving in with someone after 2 months of dating wish me luck!

I am 29F, doing great at work, have amazing family and friends. Everyone thinks I have everything anyone could ask for. And I realise that too, BUT I’m NOT happy! I have crazy working hours, I haven’t dated anyone for 6 years now. Didn’t find anyone right, or maybe didn’t have a lot of time to experiment. I think it’s the void of not having a constant with me. And I don’t know how to find one now! Everyone knows me as a cheerful person, but honestly I’m just a sad, depressed and a lonely person.

Peeps, do we stop getting butterflies post 29 while talking to any cute prospective partners?? I have date/s lined up but i don't even feel a thing...is this normal🤦‍♀️

Woman - when looking at online dating profiles do you usually expect the guy to be shorter than what he puts on the app?

I’m so single I don’t know why. I’ve tried dating apps, played social sports, done hobbies that interest me, and even stopped looking. After all that, I still haven’t found someone #dyingalone

What is the difficulty level of an experienced analyst BA interview at McKinsey & Company? Super nervous and my phone eval is scheduled 2 weeks out. Any tips would be super helpful!

Hi everyone. Is it typical for the attorney to take credit for the work a paralegal does? An example: I gave some ideas about deposition questions and some observations I made (I was asked about giving suggestions) regarding a witness and the attorney mentioned that he’s the one that had these great questions/observations. Zero credit or thank you for the work I did.

Which 3/4 ton is the best choice right now? I like the IFS of the Sierra/Silverado, the rear air suspension of the Ram, the adaptive cruise control of the F250 and Ram, the interior of the Ram, the power of the Sierra/Silverado and Ram diesels. No clear winner!

We talk a lot about how this line of work isn’t a 9-5, but there’s plenty of people who have it as a 9-5 and are advancing in their career just fine.

For those who changed careers from tax to something else, what did you pivot to?

Hi,
Anyone joining ZS on coming Monday that is 18th July?

MUSLIM SOCIAL CLUB. Would you join a Muslim Social Club to meet like minded individuals (e.g. progressive, career-oriented, ambitious, not religious extremist)? The club would be to develop platonic connections and not a singles club.

I am in a bind right now. My priority date is December 2013 EB2 India. Considering final action dates for EB3 in October my date was current. Hence I am in process of filing a EB3 downgrade and AOS. However the November visa bulletin has retrograde the dates to Jan 2012 for EB3. Many are saying EB2 will move ahead than EB3 eventually. With this background should I just cancel the downgrade plan or at least get the EAD and AP while at it? I have my EB2 I-140 approved.

Anyone has tableau position in their project then let me know please.

Has anyone used a professional service to find a new position? I’ve been applying for job (tinkering with my resume, doing development on my free time, and trying to reach out to recruiters on LI) for a while and haven’t gotten anywhere. I think my resume is solid, but more general experience than specific skills/titles. I can’t figure out why I’m not getting any responses, even for phone screens and wondering if using a service will help, especially with the time and stress.

Can you provide examples of observed phenomena that science still can’t explain?

Whisper (the app) is my best friend on lonely nights during travel weeks

Where do you all buy used watches? How do you get research done for price?

Is it normal for people in our profession to be so closely monitored by management, or is that just a thing at my workplace? Feels kinda suffocating…

Please let me know how ,I could successful at McKinsey.

Is it normal to feel pretty miserable in the first couple of months in a new role?

Why can’t people just be honest with themselves?
If a job sucks, leave. If you’re unhappy, leave. Better offer? Leave. Put on your big boy pants and make a grownup decision.

I just want to be happy. I’ve tried all the things but what I really want is just someone that gives a shit. Doesn’t have to be a romantic partner or anything. Everyone always has an agenda and I literally can’t take it any longer. I’ve moved cities, I’ve changed jobs, volunteered, joined gyms, everything…are there no decent people left?

So at what age am I supposed to stop pulling white hairs out and embrace them

I recently posted here about finding how underpaid Im compared to my peers and subordinates.I need help. I’m so angry and bitter (describes me the best right now) that Im unable to work with the same enthusiasm as before, not able to be ‘nice’ and help everyone that asks, in fact when the peer of mine (earns $20k more and does less than half the work) asks me questions, i just get so impatient. How do I fix this. I just want to do the bare minimum, but that’s just not me. Help pls 😰

My Dad has Alzheimer’s and I worry that he will no longer recognize me or remember me sooner than I am ready for.

For the past 2 years I’ve felt like a shell of my former self. I know that I can be a good communicator, organized and hard-working etc. but I feel like I’ve lost all motivation to try. It’s really impacting my job performance as I am not able to be proactive anymore. It’s also affecting my self confidence as I feel like I’m not useful to my team. It’s hard to find motivation since it feels like a vicious cycle. Also feeling very self conscious applying for new jobs knowing I am like this :(

I’m an active substance and alcohol abuser, moving up the ladder at a big4. Anyone similar out there?

I’ve slept with my boss and made out with him on multiple occasions. Not only does he have a girlfriend but my best friend is also in love with him. Never have a third class of wine folks

whats the shortest time you met someone before they told you they loved you and/or vise versa?

What is your quirky humor which goes over another person's head.

If anyone asks me what are you wearing 👀
I usually respond with, "Leaves, banana leaves/plantain leaves" 🤣😂🤣

I am 29F, doing great at work, have amazing family and friends. Everyone thinks I have everything anyone could ask for. And I realise that too, BUT I’m NOT happy! I have crazy working hours, I haven’t dated anyone for 6 years now. Didn’t find anyone right, or maybe didn’t have a lot of time to experiment. I think it’s the void of not having a constant with me. And I don’t know how to find one now! Everyone knows me as a cheerful person, but honestly I’m just a sad, depressed and a lonely person.

I wish that Apartments would let you rent all of the furniture that appears in the staged listing.

I might just get a hellcat today. Why freaking not

Feeling really demotivated!
A female associate recently made an allegation of inappropriate behaviour against me…Cont’d