Has anyone tried couples therapy? Or know anyone that has? Was it successful or is it not worth the time and money?

I really struggled with depression during my PhD program. Did anyone else experience this and how did you minimize the damage?

I’ve suffered from workaholism for a long time. Thanks to a lot of great self help books and therapy, I’m no longer putting work on a pedestal and I’m spending a lot more time on self care and my marriage. But, unfortunately, I am now getting withdrawals, because my body is used to the daily adrenaline of throwing myself into work. It’s this terrible feeling of like anguish/unease in my gut, but I don’t have anything I’m worried about- it’s like my body wants to find something to worry about.

Alright it’s been 21 days of no contact. Fastest and longest few weeks since lockdown 😞 I know it’s not an exact science but I’m curious on the statistics…who’s heard from their ex after a breakup and how long after?

Do I need ICU experience to work in the PACU?? I’ve been a nurse for 3 years in stepdown units, and I want to make the switch to the PACU. I know the worst they can say is no, but I’m wondering realistically what my chances are without working ICU. I’m just really getting burned out working inpatient.

Off topic
I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

NY closed courses for just under a week and a half & i’m having serious withdrawals! Anyone else?

My fiancé and I are getting married next august and we still haven’t decided on a honey moon, we want somewhere tropical but also are worried it’s peak hurricane season if we go right after our wedding which will be Aug 26. Any ideas/recommendations?!

Is everyone always tired?

How do you think climate change will impact insurance coverage in the future?

Has anyone ever taken Adipex? If so, how’d you maximize your results?

Colleague died over the weekend. Wondering why we don’t have more dialogue about mental health in this field.

Any recommendations for plastic surgeons in the Charlotte-area? Or any good questions to ask/red flags to look out for?

Is the vaccine free to get? I assume so since we (taxpayers) gave pharma billions already, right?

What is the easiest, fastest and cheapest way to get divorce if we both are ready to get done with it asap
There are No kids from the marriage and any other financials will be easier to settle

Anyone anyone ever tried nutrisystem? Thinking of doing it for a month to kickstart some weight loss and get my ass back to the gym.

I have a connection who until recently included the following in her “about” section:
Single mom of 2 teenaged sons.
Tattooed CPA.

I feel like the world has gone crazy.

Is it more difficult to hear (or process hearing) things when on stimulants? Several times people speak to me and then I feel I didn’t hear or understand them, never happens off stims: Any similar experiences?

Do hedge funds people have better schedule than PE people?

Tips on how to let a law firm know you have another offer? I have the final interview tomorrow at the firm and a partner indicated I’d get an offer but I just received another offer from a different company. I want to let this firm know I have an offer but that they remain my first choice…aka speed up the process so I can let the other company know!

Chase freedom flex or citi custom cash? I don't travel much (yet). I already get 3% on dining/groceries.

CFF is $200 bonus with 5% back on rotating categories capped at $1500 spend/quarter, 5% back Chase travel, 3% back dining/pharmacy

CCC is $300 bonus with 5% back on top eligible category capped at $500 spend/month

Hope everyone is doing well. As we get closer to the end of COVID, I’d like to welcome everyone to post on this thread if you are looking for a tennis buddy. Feel free to list your location and level.

Can anyone teach me the product management financial please? I'm a senior BA looking to transition to PO role. Any assistance will be much appreciated 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Anyone in ATL during the week? I want to explore 😁

Hello Folks,
Thank you for reading this post.
I am looking for a job in the Mastercard Pune location. I think I can be a good fit for "Manager Segment Insights and Intelligence".
Can any of you please refer me for this role?
I would really appreciate your help here.
Thanks

For those who were once in Big Law, how long did you stay in Big Law? What prompted you to leave? For those still there, how long have you been there? I am wondering how common my tenure is (staying less than 3 years)

🏆Humble Brag:

What's something amazing you've accomplished recently?

Drop it below!👇

Can we get a Black Attorneys bowl? POC Is triggering to say the least.

What is the salary range for Grade 9 in India in data management department or operations of Market Intelligence?

Hi! 26.5 weeks and already feel done. Gonna be a long 3 months from here.

How many fishes in this thread at BEP??

What is the best service line to start with for high pay and career growth?

Our company of 110 EEs has separate providers for payroll and HRIS, not happy with either products. I’m gathering data to make a pitch to move everything into an all-in-one HRIS + payroll.

Does it make any difference to make the change effective the first week of 2023 payroll, or to make a change in payroll providers mid year? I’m thinking it’s best to start fresh at the beginning of the year and not worry about two payroll companies for reporting. What are other things to consider?

What’s a good senior strategist salary in pharma?

What's the standard ctc for 6 years experienced people in IT

Strongly considering moving to Denver from the East Coast. What are the pros/cons of working in consulting while based in Denver? E.g., working in mountain time zone, client travel, exits, quality of life, etc.

Anyone else doing sober January? I’m loving all the extra time I get from not going out as much. Been working out, reading, chatting with friends and family on the phone

Are there single people in here? WHAT are you doing different to get/meet a partner?

What’s a good non romantic birthday gift for a roommate? M gifting a F

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

What is the easiest, fastest and cheapest way to get divorce if we both are ready to get done with it asap
There are No kids from the marriage and any other financials will be easier to settle

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

For female consultants - anyone experienced with egg freezing? Considering it and looking for practical advice i.e. 1) best locations / clinics globally (quality/cost wise) 2) estimated cost, one off and recurring 3) success in actually conceiving & giving birth 4) dos and donts / regrets 5) any other relevant considerations

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

For those of you who are married, how much did you spend on your wedding and was it worth it? Looking back, what are the things you realized didn’t matter / wasn’t worth the spend?

Would you be upset if your SO showed up at your house without an invitation but knew you were going to be in the neighborhood?Even if you weren't expecting them, would you leave them outside knowing they were there?

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

At this moment, I am almost depressed. I am in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now. In the past 2 years, we have fought more than we have lived days with peace. We both have high ego problems because of which it’s really hard to resolve a conflict. Things have recently escalated to calling names/swearing and even physically abuse from both sides. We both want to end the relationship, have tried so many times, but we cannot.

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Anyone here paying for a hinge subscription?

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

Need gift ideas: my partner’s parents let me stay at their beach cottage and would like to gift them something nice. They are well off, like food, and outdoors stuff. Any suggestions?

Is it true that a guy never notices another guy but notices all the girls? My boyfriend and I just had a discussion about how he does not notice any guys in the gym but notices all the girls. When I tried to put forward my argument saying I notice both guys and girls so it should be the same case for him. He said it’s not the same for the guys. Can I get any male opinion on this or even female if they have experienced something similar in their relationship? Thanks!

Tired of dating... Just looking for a husband at this point. Anyone interested? 👀 I'm a very fit, very smart, 30F.

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅