Has anyone use seekingarrangements before? I just joined and a part of me feels empowered to take control of my assets but another part of me feels really dishonest with this premise. Any advice?

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This is without judgment, but and it may be different city to city, but where I live it is akin to an escort service and could be very damaging to your reputation.

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Hey guys, here’s an update in case anyone is interested. Matched with a 50 year old married man (wife and 2 kids). Says he’s cheating on his wife bc she’s unattractive to him. Offered to pay me $900/month to meet up with him for 15 minutes “for my pleasure” bc taking care of young women turns him on. I vetted him like crazy to make sure he wasn’t a catfish—and he’s real. He even snap chatted me a pic of his family (among other pics). Not sure why I’m surprised, bc I always thought these things were an exaggeration. I feel kinda gross and sad.

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Pretty much on the same page. Would love to hear about others experiences as well

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It’s kind of weird but also exciting haha. I’m glad you can relate...I was afraid ppl would judge

Do not do it. It will make you lose your faith in humanity.

Many ways. Your relationship is reduced to a “service” and a “payment” essentially. There are a lot of creepy men on there, not to mention a lot of gross men (i.e. “must be a virgin”, “must be under 23”, or “must be under 110lbs”) that will make you feel inferior, and many other things, cringeworthy things.

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You do you, I guess. But would you start a relationship with a married man if it weren’t for the money? How is this going to effect any current relationship you may be in or might want to be in? (That is, what if they are uncomfortable and question whether you’d potentially be doing the same thing later in life (having your own side piece)? Are you going to be ok knowing that you are the other woman, and this is potentially money that could be paying for his kids college or something similar? I think these are the relevant questions. The premise of your interaction is not dishonest because you both know what the point of the arrangement is, so its not an honestly thing. Are there other things you could do to make extra money that are less on the margins socially and emotionally and that wont involve you selling yourself in this way?

Hey thanks for the comment! I felt terrible doing this, and ended it before it even started. His wife and kids don’t deserve this situation. The husband is still on SA, so they’ll be in this situation in one way or the other, but it won’t be bc of me. My conscience is clear

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