Has the covid19 made you think more about your bucket list and all that you want to accomplish and experience, the daily job grind notwithstanding? I feel like while I am at a standstill, my mind is racing with all that I need to decide and do.

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I actually did the reverse. Completed most of my bucket list items early in life and put my career second. Now that I’ve established everything I can focus on the career and seeing my kids through their educations before I retire.

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Yes. I’ve been pretty good about taking one international trip and at least one domestic trip to discover America every year. I’m thinking that I need to make more of those opportunities. Because right now, alone at home, it’s those memories that sustain me. 

Same here. Considering options

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I was dating someone for about 2.5 years and then we broke up because of COVID and the long distance was making it too difficult to continue. The break up must’ve been like a 4-5 minute FaceTime because I was very distraught. After we broke up, she started seeing someone else but I was heartbroken and it’s taken me over a year to really get over everything and process those feelings. (Cont.)

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Sorry for the delay, was sick yesterday. And yes, when I say sick, I really mean hung over. Been a few years since that happened. Anyway, good luck. I personally don't see any plays this week.

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Hi all, I’m a mom of 2 (2.5 years and 9 months). I’ve been with IBM five years as a data scientist and more recently as a product manager. I’m looking for my next role and I’ve been applying to jobs externally for about a month and I’ve only received rejections. I’ve struggled with postpartum depression during the first few months. I’ve been doing a lot better lately but I’m feeling these rejections are starting to get to me. Any PMs out there willing to share any advice or connect with me 1x1?

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Can I change my insurance from HDHP to a premier plan once my baby is here?

Off-topic Feeling a bit low and anxious today, I am 33 yrs old with history of miscarriage changed job to get some growth, stability and motivation
But there's constant pressure from everyone in the family, friends. it's not like I don't want to get pregnant but things have not been easy tried hard to come out of depression and move forward in my life hoping will be blessed with a baby too when time is right But constant questions bother me sometimes and dunno how to deal with everything :(

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Hi everyone, I'm new to the bowl and would like to see if anyone is available to critic my resume. I have 6 years of work experience; 2 years are in Business Development and 4 years in Customer Service.

I am currently unemployed due to Covid-19 and been trying to get a job in Singapore. I want to refocus on my career in Business Development/Marketing and develop from there on.

Appreciate the help.

Partners, please looking for some advice. I work for a boutique firm and worked really hard the past year with a lot more responsibilities and an under staffed team (hiring freeze because of covid). My bonus number was good, but not great (I didn’t get my max bonus). The reason from my boss was that while my performance was well recognized, because of covid there was a broad bonus haircut. However, my direct reports did not get any bonus. It has really tainted my view on the firm because...cont.

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Seeking advisement on HELOC…..
Currently married with one child. Own two condos in the state of Hawaii. We moved in with my in laws to get some help with our 2 yr old during Covid. I owe about $150k (market value $530k) on property one and owe $490k (market value $790k) on property two. My wife and I both work and have a combined gross income of $370k/yr. With about $120k in liquid cash, should we try pay off prop one and get a heloc for a SFH?

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Anyone out there a nurse health coach? How do you like it?

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Has anybody changed locations from SF or NY to a Lower COL city like Chicago during COVID (specifically in tech) and had their salary adjusted down? If so, how much was the decrease?

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What's a good billable hour total for 2020? Given covid conditions (we faced slump in work about 2 months) and work from home productivity.

Would really love to help my lovely sister in law find a job in NYC or CT. She is a certified nutritionist, celebrity personal chef (her current job in Aspen but she is moving to Westport in January) and an all-around terrific, dedicated, hardworking person. She gets down around the holidays because she's single and doesn't have kids, but is an amazing aunt to our kids. Does anyone have any leads in the health/ wellness space? Im in biglaw and this is out of my depth a bit. TIA, Happy Holidays!

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Does anyone own a scooter for getting around the city? Looking for suggestions for a scooter to get to and from places like the office or the gym that are easy to fold up / travel with.

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Anyone need a quiet space to work remotely while maintaining social distance? We run an Airbnb in Brooklyn and had a lot of cancellations because of COVID. Would gladly rent it out as a workspace!

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More people died of covid under Biden than under Trump.

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Less than a year before I can retire and not sure I can make it. The stress at home, work and with the aches and pains of my 54 year old body are taking their toll. I wake up every weekday and dread the coming 14 hour day. I live for the bliss of two days off on the weekend when I can attempt to just ignore everything until Monday morning.

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Things I miss most pre COVID - concerts and festivals 😑

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What has COVID19 taught you and what will you cherish most after this is all over?

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Does anyone have advice/ experience with disclosing or advocating for your ADHD support needs in highly toxic environments? Or getting formal disability accommodations?

I’m on a VERY toxic project where I really need accommodations but I am scared there will be repercussions if I personally disclose my ADHD like I have on past projects.

I submitted an HR request for accommodations and it’s been ignored for over a week.

I really can’t take another week of spending every day crying.

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I’m a senior associate and received an offer to join a very profitable client as general counsel that would open lots of doors professionally and financially. Problem is I’m super burned out on law and was planning on quitting law firm in the next few weeks and doing something else with my life. Someone kick some sense into me before I decline the offer.

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Any suggestions for neighborhoods/streets/displays of holiday decorations and lighting? Back in LA there were neighborhoods known to have the best decorations and we’d do a drive through it. Anything like that here?

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Hey folks,

Looking for a change in sales domain. Having total experience of 4 years in B2B SaaS field.
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My SO is convinced she can’t make our weekend plans due to these trainings ..

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Currently working as a policy analyst in BC (Canada) and I am wanting to leave the bureaucracy and go to private sector consulting (will also do in house as well). More so government relations/lobbying. Is there any advice for people who worked in the public service that went to GR work. I have about 4 years total experience both political/comms and govt/policy experience.

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Hi y'all! I'm looking for a career change into tech, specifically into UX/UI design. I am currently a childcare teacher with a BA in psychology. I was looking into affordable bootcamps and found Avocademy as my top option. Can anyone who graduated or currently in the program, share their experience.

Any recommendations on affordable UX/UI design bootcamps?

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Finally getting ECD offers but not sure of ECD salaries in LA and NY. What’s a solid range?

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Can we rejoin Wipro? What is a cool down period?
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How much should I ask for 6 YOE ?

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I’m a SPED Resource/Inclusion Teacher which I really love. I really like working with the Gen Ed teachers maybe because my background is Gen Ed. I’m noticing many SPED team members go straight to the principal if they have an issue with a Gen Ed teacher instead of going to the teacher directly. Is this the norm now? What happened to SPED working with Gen Ed? Maybe I’m old school, but this seems so wrong to me. Thoughts?

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Amazing there’s over 20k people in this bowl. Collective wisdom must be astounding. What’s your best bit of advice for an early 40’s, single woman feeling like her career is reaching a plateau?

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Who here doesn’t work on the weekends but feels guilty and constantly thinks about work that they could be doing?

I should be in a better mental mindset at this point (almost 45). No interest in becoming a partner or CEO. TC is over $250k…

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If you can go back in time to your first 3 years as an consultant, what would you do differently?

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Anyone else here who drastic career changed?Tired of being told what to do by teammates, subcontractors 15 years younger, when we have the same titles and I’ve been on the project longer. How to deal?

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After a year of waiting and caregiving while managing multiple projects, we finally got the call that they found a new liver for my wife.

We're getting out of the crucible as diamonds and not ash. Figured I'd share good news rather than the usual vitriolic rants. 😂

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Considering a move from Delivery side of consulting to the Sales side (i.e. selling work, RFPs, opportunity/deal conversion). Been in delivery for over 20 years and feel I need a change. I get to "test drive" the role and do it for a year. Any one been on the Sales side and Delivery side for a time and have an opinion and why they like one over the other? Thanks!

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Dealing with aging parents. What was the moment you and your siblings decided to step in and take control? What would you have done differently? More in next post.

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Thank goodness there were no phone cameras or social media when we were young and stupid

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Anyone else having WFH fatigue? I had been traveling weekly for business the last 20+ years, but the last 3 months at home has been personally challenging. I love my wife and 3 boys — but I need some “alone time” which I used to have when traveling. Sometimes I get in my car and go for a drive but it’s not enough. Seems like this WFH is the new working model for the future. Anyone else feel this way?

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Which consulting firms have mandatory retirements? Are these age limits only for partner level?

In this day and age we live much longer, and plan to work longer, so should these be allowed?

Question from a way over 40, got into consulting late, and only a few years from social security person. How do you stay motivated enemy you will age out before next promotion?

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Anyone keep cash on hand at home - and if so how much? I just closed some accounts to consolidate and want to keep cash for emergencies

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Favorite vintage TV show? I’ll go first - I liked watching Dick Van Dyke show growing up. The commercials were fun then, when Dick would pull out a Kent cigarette and make a sales pitch. The show was great with Mary Tyler Moore.

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This may be an odd question, but what word do others use to introduce their long term cohabiting partner? Feels weird to say girlfriend/boyfriend when we’re both over 45

Anyone self manages their assets and uses a fee only financial planner? How much do they charge and is it based on % of assets or fixed fee or hourly, etc.

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My SO and I have been together for 2 years. Plan to propose next year. However, I’ve been struggling with this and need advice. My SO works for an NGO that does great work, but gets paid ~60k. Contd.

Seriously thinking of taking a 6 mo sabbatical and getting away from it all for a while next year. Potentially travel around the world in Q3 / Q4 presuming the pandemic situation has improved. Single and kids are in college so no day to day family responsibilities. Anyone done something similar? Would love to hear your experiences. I know it will set me back from making Partner by at least 1 year but who cares? I feel like it will be a life changing experience (traveling around the world part).

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2nd year M&A Mgr- promotion to SM seems unlikely for another 2 years- being over 40 what exit options are worthwhile to pursue ?

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